" I love you"; a phrase of a magical effect, is said to kind intimate truthful friends and turns them into bad inconsiderate lying strangers.
2007-09-07 10:29:10 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
No, i know they do love me, they showed that before, and it is not an illusion of my mind. At the moment they ... know i love them, they just start to play they do not.
ok i know why... it is just because they are afraid of losing me. and folks.. she is so so nervy when she feels i might change my mind.. then she try to be first to break up.. it is like (ok, you dont want me, no it is me who do not want you).. thanks for the answers.. although they did not hit the point. i will try to make her read this.
2007-09-07 13:21:48 · update #1
Look! what happens in general is as i am going to show, BUT THIS DOES NOT APPLY TO OUR CASE HERE BECAUSE I EXPLAINED IN THE FIRST DETAILS WHAT HAPPENED. THIS IS DIFFERENT ISSUE.
As to what usually happens when we say this phrase to kind people and suddenly they turn into different people, I have leanred the atonomy of this. When we love people, when put them in a higher position, this is just the nature of love. A lot of people can not handle this, they just like this new position and do not wan to get down anymore, and maybe they even want to get higher. They turns into bullies. We just get off from them. they are no more higher (without us). they realize their normal position and place. they regret (but their pride won't let them show it). and this is a lesson for both sides.
But I say again, this does not apply to my case here. I knew what made them act that way.
2007-09-07 18:42:56 · update #2
I love you syndrome had been really a mess if you will recall years way back the i love you virus was a total mess in the computer world. Don't ever trust these words because it is so easy to utter these words but there is a danger behind those words.
2007-09-07 12:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Third P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree... but I know it can seem that way. I think I would link this question up with your question regarding "children and fools telling the truth". In my opinion, if you love someone, tell them, love is patient, kind, forgiving, unselfish and humble... it does not lie, cheat, or manipulate... it always hopes, endures and prevails. (1Cor. 13) You can judge whether or not you have love inside of you and give it to another by those terms .... and if you do, then you tell them. If they turn into a dishonest and inconsiderate stranger.... then that's their issue, what have you done but express your love for them? If you love someone, then it shows in your actions, and it's not just a phrase. "I love you" I agree should not be taken lightly or for granted... then again, it should not be said if it cannot be proven. Love is not complicated... it's simple, it's just that through life the meaning and understanding of "love" becomes tainted for so many reasons. Finding and knowing what love is.... that's a treasure you cannot replace.
You cannot "love" a movie.... or "love" a song... you can enjoy, prefer, like or even really really like these things... when you love, you choose to sacrifice and risk....love is a choice... sometimes it's easy, sometime's it's very difficult.... love is fulfilling, it's one of the best choices you can make, it's one of the best blessings you could ever ask for. Its important that you say "i love you" when you want to say it... and to not say it if you don't want to.... that's where it loses it's glory.... some people don't know how to accept love, some run from it, some want it so badly but think it's something so totally different than what it is. Some view love as betrayal.... it gets really messed up.... like I said before, reference ICor. 13 and compare whatever you give or receive to that description of love... makes it really a no-brainer.
2007-09-07 20:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by littlelittlestar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
saying "I love you" or any one nice phrase, does not turn people/anyone into that!
perhaps they were not comfortable accepting love, or felt pressured to return the feelings, so their actions/attitudes didnt meet your expectations, and now you view them as negative people, or else maybe they were bad, inconsiderate etc etc to start with
2007-09-07 19:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because the people become strangers it does not mean that they became that way because of the phrase.
2007-09-07 18:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by spartanmike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess those 'friends' didn't love you.
2007-09-07 18:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by shmux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is the reason. "i love you" is the spell.
2007-09-07 18:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by whtshdw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋