Have you ever cheated on your significant other? If so, why did you do it and what were the consequences (if there were any)?
PS - I am not asking this because I am looking to cheat on someone. I am just curious : )
2007-09-07 08:54:22 · 13 answers · asked by Pam 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No, I haven't. I have considered it, but have never gone through with it. I would be foolish to think that anyone I dated hadn't faced the same temptations, but as far as I know, no one ever went through with it.
2007-09-10 09:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Before we got married I cheated on my hubby. He was gone on course for months and we kinda grew apart. He cheated on me as well so it was kinda easier to swallow seeing as we were both at fault. We never told each other when his course was done, how I found out was I found a love letter from her in his car. We got into a big fight, I told him I cheated as well and we just about broke up. We both cried and realized how much we loved each other and we worked things out. We have 2 boys and been together 8 yrs now and things couldn't be any better. Things happen for a reason some good some bad, but in the end things always work out for the best...
2007-09-07 09:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by baby s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yes,kind of i did.i was 12 then so you know i was not thinkining in terms of significant others,but he was my bf and i liked him.we went strong for abt an year,but then he moved to chicago.we kept in touch we used to call each other and all but then i started going round with someone else and i didnt tell that to him for very long and you know he believed that i was still his g.f,i told him eventually and he was heartbroken and didnt call me after that.i did it because well you know i just couldnt continue a relationaship on telephonic conversations,and plus he became kind of distant u knw like talking abt his new friends and all .i dont know exactly why i did it,but i still feel guilty abt it even though i m 15 now.
2007-09-07 09:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by uglybetty881 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I have, but not a significant other that I really cared about. I have been with my husband for 7yrs and have never even thought about cheating(because I love him)
2007-09-07 09:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, never. My first wife committed herself to adultery, and I watched my dad do the same thing to my mother. It is painful.
I've seen the pain, and I have been a recipient of that pain. I know what it is like. That is not something I want to be responsible for slashing my wife's heart with.
She herself suffered the same with her first husband, and we both know ....it is not something you do and get to sleep with in peace.
It is not something you do to someone you love whether she/he ever finds out about it or not.
You are caught in the pain as soon as you commit yourself to it whether you are seen, found out or not.
2007-09-07 09:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by the old dog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i've done the cheating and been cheated on it not very nice either way and wouldn't do it again.
2007-09-07 09:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by joanne b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. And been cheated on. Not very pleasant all round..
2007-09-07 09:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, anger and loneliness was the motivation...I was young and not very mature...now I am comfortable with all my emotions and do not act but wait for them to pass...they will always pass...
2007-09-07 09:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she wasn't looking i took one of her pawns off the bord and she beat me soundly anyway. I learned my lesson and will never cheat again..:)
2007-09-07 09:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by charlesdclimer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nop never done it.. because i have a concsiuonce.. what goes around comes around trust me:)
2007-09-07 09:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by lebanesebabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋