how do i help my x boyfriend he is being hurt by his new girlfriend shes controling him what do i do
2007-09-07 06:34:34 · 21 answers · asked by Rawnette J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Laugh REALLY HARD at him!!!!!! We all get what we settle for my dear..... if that's the kind of GF he prefers to have instead of yourself, then let him enjoy it!!!!
This is none of your business, you're no longer part of his life so just let him live his life as he chose to and be happy yourself, move on.......
2007-09-07 06:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lprod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that. there seems to be a lot of violence in relationships today. i think the only way you can really help him is to be there for him, and to let him know this is not a normal thing. love isn't supposed to hurt. he is the only one that can truly stop it-either by making her stop it or by leaving if that's what it takes. in either case, he has to make that choice, when hes had enough, he'll do something about it and not until then. been there, done that. best of luck to him!
2007-09-07 06:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not your problem that the ex slap him, well he need to stand up and be a man and stop being so weak. She only doing what he allow her to do. Let him handle her and you stay out of it. Maybe you should go and slap her if you are so worry about him.
2007-09-07 06:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, if he were MY Ex, I'd keep my nose out of his business and let the chips fall where they may.
The key word is "EX" because he's no longer that important to me.
When he does find the strength/courage to leave, just nod and smile. Say nothing. Just be there - non-judgmentally glad to see him.
When he's ready to talk, he'll speak up - so just keep quiet.
But for now - do nothing. He left you for someone else. So let him see what a stupid jerk he was for himself.
2007-09-07 06:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You moved on with your life, so if he wants to continue to put up with the physical abuse, then that's his choice! I understand that you want to be there for him, but this is something that he needs to deal with himself and needs to find the courage to stand up to his so-called and abusive new girlfriend! He shouldn't let ANYONE put their hands on him and he doesn't deserve it. The best thing you can do is to stay out of it!
2007-09-07 06:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Research what to do about people in abusive relationships. Men can be abused just as much as women, he has it harder because society feels men are supposed to be tough and probably fears losing his manhood if he admits it's an abusive relationship.
2007-09-07 06:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by Manny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd better stay out of it before she "slapts" you!!
2007-09-07 06:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes obviously he wants it....otherwise you should help him get out of the relationship
2007-09-07 06:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by durtyboyz2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing, he is your x boyfriend and probably broke up with you because you didn't slap him or at least not enough.
some guys are into the slapping thing.
2007-09-07 06:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he is your EX leave him alone because if you get involved he is going to think that you want him back...
He will open his eyes, just let it be..
Unless you do want him back then you do what you have to do....... good luck
2007-09-07 06:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by emigirl6363 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋