how would I know if I was lesbian?

Answer 1

You would be attracted to women, and not guys...duh

Answer 2

You could see yourself in a long-term committed relationship with a woman. And only women from now on. Just having the urge to experiment sexually with another woman does not make you a lesbian. It's perfectly natural if you're curious, and quite enjoyable :). Just make sure you keep it private for your sake and hers. Chances are you'll go back to men only eventually (well at least I did-- I'm getting married to one and have no desire to be with ANYONE else but him, male or female). Still I don't recommend repressing the urge, because someday you may finally want to act out and it may come at a time that is inconvenient or hurtful to someone else. Get it out of your system when you're young and don't need to make any choices for awhile. You don't want to look back someday when your married and have kids and wonder if perhaps you should have been more adventurous. Anyway, if you keep it private, it won't do anyone any harm (assuming you're not in a relationship.) Have fun!

Answer 3

Well If your attracted to women and you have more feelings toward them then men, well baby your a lesbian. If you have the desire to be with a women your a lesbian.

Answer 4

Hi Noddy,

8 out of 10 women are bisexual but most of them tend to mark themselves as lesbians. Just cause they may have a bad impression on guys or had a bitter past experience with them. If you are attracted to gals and even a pinch of attraction towards men sexually indicates you are a bisexual. But when men completely turn you off and women turns you on wild then consider yourself lesbian. Find it out yourself noddy.

Answer 5

Honestly, human nature and sexuality fall closer to bi-sexual than anything else. THere are more (majority) folks that fall under bi-sexual, than fully straight and fully gay. Just because you are attracted to the same sex doesn't mean you're a lesbian. Unless, you decide you only want to be with women and be in relationships with women. If not...it's a natural curiosity!

Answer 6

You have a consistent sexual attraction to women. Basically the thought of a chick makes you wet but not so much the thought of a dude.

Almost everyone questions it, it's normal to periodically have dreams about being with women or to be curious about being with women, that's why I say a consistent attraction.

Answer 7

It may take a lifetime for you to discover that answer. Many times when girls and boys alike are in their teens, they can be very confused with their sexual orientation. Just be patient and I am certain that you will get thru this time of being confused. Raging hormones can be very difficult at any age

Answer 8

i think the best way for u to find this out would be to have a male and female friend over and explain to them u have to find out because its been on ur mind. try everything u do on both the women and the man and that should tell u what u enjoy most.

Answer 9

It depends,if you have more feelings for a girl,than you are.
If you settle problems with a guy through a fist fight,then you are.
If you do none of the above and look forward in dating a guy,then you are defenetly not.

Answer 10

Do you like girls?
Do you like boys?
If you said yes to the first question and no to the second, then there you go...ur a lesbian.
Have fun!

Answer 11

You only love women. You detest thinking about having sex with men.