Naomi Wolf said this in an interview with Ali G, I just find this hard to believe my g/f has never jumped on me or anything if I have washed a few dishes. Is this true for any ladies out there?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dyLSstqMvH8
2007-09-07 05:09:34 · 28 answers · asked by Johno 5 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Ooooooohhhhhhhh, Johno! You're turning me on! Just watching all those bubbles and your hands and arms getting wet just does it for me!
Can you do my laundry next, sexy?
2007-09-07 11:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Rainbow 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My perspective: Guys listen up!
I'm happily married. I'm a domesticated man. I'm a plumber/construction worker. I ride a Harley, and ride with a group as well. Anyway....in saying my wedding vows nobody voted that my wife is responsible for housekeeping. Nor am I. It is a joint effort. Sex as the goal, is not the only reason for doing my fair share of the house work. It's the relationship! I simply enjoy my wifes company. She is my friend, and one who I look forward to seeing after a hard days work. She treats me like a man, not some emasculated form of something she thinks I should be. She enjoys my manhood for what it is. Sooo...doing the dishes never got me into the sack quicker, however it does win me points (not literally.) Therefore I also do my own laundry , and hers (more points) fix broken things around the house (more points) cook dinner quite well (more points) general house cleaning (more points) What do I do with all those points you ask? I redeem them in the bedroom, living room, kitchen, bathroom shower, hallway, laundry room. Hey....how do you think I got my Harley? Be good to your woman in every way....let her know she is the most important thing in your life. It pays big dividends, and the payoff is a loving wife who is responsive in return for your efforts and consideration.
2007-09-07 13:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I tend to get better (no, make that MORE ENERGETIC) 'lovin' after doing house work...e.g. vacuuming, dusting, moping, dishes, laundry. Takes the load off my wife for a change. She did all that for so many years while I was in the Navy and she was a stay at home mom.
2007-09-07 20:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by AmericanPatriot 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This much I know - if a woman is smart she better act turned on when her man does the dishes - if she wants him to keep doing the dishes in months/years to come. Men will work for sex - a lot faster than they will for food. Forgive me guys, but ya know it's true!!!
2007-09-07 05:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by dr311 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No they do not,but funny i do remember my first boyfriend from way back.He did the dishes for his Mom, i found him sweet not erotic. I did not know the meaning of the word either when i was young.
2007-09-07 05:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by yasses 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Would I find a man doing dishes erotic? Not unless he was naked.
LOL!
That's not to say I wouldn't love him for it. I think men who help out like that are wonderful!
2007-09-07 05:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It's not necessarily erotic, but it shows you care about the same things she does, that you understand her day, and you like to take over some of her worries. That's what goes on in her mind anyway.
The bottom line is women are not in the mood if they are tired and feel like they were stuck in the house all day
2007-09-07 05:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well, if he would do the dishes on a consistant basis, I could see myself jumping him. But, I am too busy reminding him that he needs to do the dishes to get any arousal from it when he finally does them!
2007-09-07 08:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by sbhaddan 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Smile. You are looking at it at the wrong angle. We simply appreciate the effort you put into helping us with household chores. The idea of that is very erotic to us.
2007-09-07 07:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by ms.sophisticate 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Definitely...so hot.
Actually, I've never seen a man doing dishes, so I wouldn't know.
2007-09-07 06:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by wendy g 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋