When I see cute, handsome guys on the street. I can't help checking them out ( until they notice me I look at them for a while ). Especially the ones who have muscular bodies
My heart beats faster when I saw them ( or when I am in the locker room surrounded by other shirtless guys ) . I don't have this often when I see girls. Seldom
Please help me
2007-09-07 04:15:29 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Do you feel sexual attraction to them?
Admiring other men is normal, even for str8 guys (even though they might deny it).
The important question is who do you wish you could have sex with, men or women?
If it's men, then you're gay.
If it's women, then you're just admiring physical beauty in men.
2007-09-07 04:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by Acorn 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are decidedly gay.
You wondered if this was just "straight male bonding"; however, passing by men on the street is not "bonding" of any kind. Bonding is when you actually hang out with other guys.
By the way, I'm gay, but have numerous male friends who are straight. We're friends because we have a lot of things in common. We're also all very confident in our individual sexualities -- I'm evolved enough to never have the urge to "bark up the wrong tree," and they don't have the paranoia that every gay man will try to seduce them. [I'm convinced that every virulent male homophobe is a closet case.]
2007-09-07 05:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by The Snappy Miss Pippi Von Trapp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admiring another guy's physical beauty does NOT make you gay. Girls do this with each other all the time, and it doesn't make them lesbians. Even fantasizing about guys STILL doesn't make you gay. Bi, maybe. It's only if you act on it, and you discover upon doing so that there's nothing else you'd rather do, and that doing the same with girls doesn't even come close. THAT'S when you know you're gay.
2007-09-07 04:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by dreamchaser8860 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You sound just like me when I was 13. I started wonering if I was gay at 13, but since I never felt any attraction towards girls I thought it was safe to say I was gay.
If you only feel attracted to men, then yeah you're gay.
2007-09-07 04:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I honestly get the same exact feeling you get with your heart beating faster at the men's locker room at the Gym.
Try going on a casual date with a muscular guy and see if you get the feeling of your heart beating faster when you are hanging out with the muscular guy.
Also, try checking out this bodybuilder's website. His name is Sagi Kalev and he is my favorite bodybuilder.
http://www.sagikalev.com
Good Luck Dude.....
2007-09-07 05:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by embassydiplomat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think male bonding is used to describe a very real friendship-love between men who know each other. honey, you're talking about what the gay world calls "cruising". straight up. maybe try it out or something before you creep out all the guys you're starting at. or at least try it in a gay neighborhood where it may be welcomed and you can see how things feel once you're approached.
2007-09-07 04:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by parasenorita 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't see how any of this could be mistaken for "straight male bonding". nowhere in you're question do you mention physical contact. if you think they're cute, handsome, etc and your heard beats faster when he see them shirtless, then, yes you're gay
2007-09-07 08:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Brian S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nahhhh! You're not gay; just envious of all those muscles. You just need to polish up on your manners and remember that if you look for more than 3 second, you're staring. You need to slow down your imagination.
Try building some good muscles and a good body of your own. I know some short guys who do what you do because they want to be taller.
2007-09-07 04:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by Laredo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I tend to do the same when I see a hot girl. I cant stop look and checking her out and I use to think that I was a lesbian cause I did feel some sort of attraction. But then I realized I was just admiring their bodies and kinda comparing myself to them and was like does my body look as good as hers. So maybe you're just looking at them and thinking I want to look like that
2007-09-07 04:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I am gay and I do that. The question is do you feel a sexual and emotional attraction?? Try going on a date with a guy and if you feel comfortable and it is what you want you are most likely gay.
2007-09-07 04:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by ray 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋