2007-09-07 04:15:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Home & Garden ➔ Garden & Landscape
Turn it around on him..stallk him and then call the cops on him. There are stalking laws to protect you......use them.
2007-09-07 05:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by Perennial Queen 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is he hiding out in gardens? Why is your question in gardens and landscaping? A stalker needs to be reported to the police and reported to your parents if you are underage. Stalking is often not taken seriously, especially with younger people. Stalking often leads to rape and or assault. No coy tricks will work with an actual stalker. You need the services of those that "defend and protect."
If you are a young person, you might want to have your father or a big father figure stalk him while he is stalking you. Perhaps if the stalking is verified, these folks can have a little talk with him about stalking and the consequences if it continues.
2007-09-07 07:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't and won't. Like the others said, you report it to the police and let others know about your situation. In other words, you expose HIM and bring him into the "light". People that stalk do so quietly and don't want attention to their deviant behavior. So you give him exactly what he DOESNT want: exposure.
Tell everyone, including his relatives that his behavior is
unacceptable and that you are not going to tolerate it. You need to give your harshest response FIRST and not escalate your response only as he escalates his stalking behaviors.
Also, you said "boy". If you are a minor, you need to get an adult to help you so that he sees that you have let adults know about him and what he is doing. Again, it's about the exposure thing. Once he realizes that you have lots of people watching his every move and watching out for you, he should stop. However, if he doesnt, you need to go further and file a restraining order against him if you feel in danger or threatened.
Good Luck!
2007-09-07 04:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the police and see about getting a restrining order keeping him at a distance of 100 yards or more.
These types can become dangerous. I hope your parents are aware of this.
Reading a book right now called The Wrong Man by John Katzenbach..
2007-09-07 04:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by llittle mama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hehe, the police is fine and all but definitely not permanent unless the dude either goes to jail or dies. the point is, you dont want him liking you. get creative. put on a fake missing tooth and smile at him. or just for one day, smell like crap. eat a lot of garlic, step in some poo. why? usually its a physical trait that attracts them to you. they also know nothing about you personally so they conjure up this image of you. destroy that image. if i stalked some girl and i suddenly found out she had a tooth missing and smelled like week old trash, had crabs and herpe-gono...id move on. haha
2007-09-07 04:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by Micks578 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Agree with Hideeho. Also involve your teachers, guidance councellors. Definitely have your parents call his
good luck sweetie
2007-09-07 05:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by reynwater 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A hatchet, Garbage bags & some rope.
2007-09-07 12:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh my god i know how you feel.
its like you cant be NICE to people anymroe without them turning into scary stalker CREEPS.
a guy cut my PICTURE out of the yearbook and kept it in his wallet, then showed it to me. I didnt even know his NAME.
maybe death is the only option?
2007-09-07 04:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
call the police and report him, talk to your parents and get them involved if you are still at home.....
2007-09-07 04:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the police and press charges
2007-09-07 04:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋