All of us women , can sense things !!!
We all have that special gift , it's called , Female intuition.
so what if you can sense that your husband is still very much in love with his ex , who left him many yours ago ?
2007-09-07 04:12:07 · 18 answers · asked by superwoman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How are you "sensing" this. Does he talk about her, does he have contact with her? If your just "sensing" it you are going to stir up a whole bunch of trouble for no reason. Take a a look at what your trying to get out of this.
2007-09-07 06:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sense it then its probably true. I would confront him with it. Now if they have kids together then they will always love/care for each other in their own special way. That will never go away. And its only because having children with someone ties in a special bond nobody else can understand. And if they get along good for the children thats really great. If no kids I'd confront him with both barrels.
2007-09-07 11:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by Maria 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you gotta decide if you are "sensing" it, or if you are imagining it. Think hard about it. Is there a reason you want to leave him? Are you upset with him about something and it's manifesting itself into this theory of yours? Does he "pine" for her? If so, how bad? Talk to him about it and see what he says. Don't be accusatory or b*tchy, just let him get it all out. If he denys it, you can only believe him, or leave him.
2007-09-07 11:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I truly believed that he was in love with his ex....I would be very angry and upset that he was leading me on in the relationship. I would disconnect from him and be honest and tell him why. I would suggest to him that he work on his problems about the ex and find his way back to her or get over her before involving another woman in his life! You have emotions and feelings to and he should not want to ever make you feel second best compared to her. Nor should you ever have to feel that after all your emotional investment in him that he would throw you to the curb if she wanted to hook back up with him. I would protect myself here and untill he got her out of his system I would be done here.
2007-09-07 11:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Those feelings aren't always correct. He is with you and not her; could be you doubting yourself that bring up these feelings. Have you talked to him about how you feel? No matter what, if something is bothering you this much, you need to let him know so he has the opportunity to discuss it with you.
2007-09-07 11:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I think the same of my husband. Wish I had known before I married him. Sometimes I think he married me just to try to get a reaction out of her. Unfortunately for him, she doesn't care.Wish I had known.
2007-09-07 11:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by tammy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a crock.
If women have that special sense which is so highly tuned,
why do they make so many poor decisions?
Perhaps we would be better served if we worked more on logic and less on feelings.
2007-09-07 11:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
sometimes its ur imagination that is working its way to ur heart. now when u say female intuition( its not always right).
no ur husband, he has an ego that maybe hasant gotten over the fact that they left him.
2007-09-07 11:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if it was my husband who was in love with his ex, I would tell him to be with her. I do not have time to force no man to be with me if he is still in love with his ex-girl.
I will move on...
2007-09-07 11:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sucks to know you're not his first choice. You were the one who said yes. Hey, if you don't feel that your husband loves you the way he should, why waste your time.
2007-09-07 11:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋