If a married man leaves his wife for his gf will he ever be happy?

Answer 1

its really possible if the married man really loves his gf & it also depends on the person.....every individual is unique so we can't judge them by their actions maybe there's a deeper meaning/reason why he left his wife for his gf.

Answer 2

It really depends on the situation because if he is not in love with his wife anymore I don't think anything could make him happy to stay in a marriage. If the man leaves his wife out of lusting for another woman he may regret it once the passion dies down and she becomes to him like any other everyday woman that has to put up with him. Because you see people want what is forbidden and what is a challenge to have but once that thrill is leveled out he may not feel or look at her the same. By then you can only hope the wife realizes that she cannot trust his commitment and loyality to her and never take him back again. Hopefully she will see him for the small man that he is and know that she is worth more than what she ever got from him. At this point it would be the husbands loss and his wife should not care anything about his happiness because he made that choice!!

Answer 3

Maybe, I guess it would depend on whether or not he was ever really happy with his wife. Chances are though, the same reason he left his wife will ultimately be the same or similar reason he leaves his girlfriend. Unless it was some ridiculous reason he got married in the first place like, because she said she was pregnant, or she would 'do it' unless they were married first. Additionally, if there is still some connection to her that he can't sever, she will make sure he is never happy again.

Answer 4

Well, he'll be happier than he would have been if he were cheating on her.
Since it's unlikely he'll have a chance to be taken back to his wife should he choose his girlfriend over her, he needs to think carefully.
What does the girlfriend have the wife doesn't?
Could this be a mid life crisis, as in he wants to recapture his youth, which he will not actually.
Are there children involved?? One person's happiness isn't enough to destroy a whole family. It's being selfish and in fact guilt will eat at him, he may lose contacts with his children, and for sure they will be really hurt.
If he is honest with himself, then that's the best he can do.
Good luck.

Answer 5

What a terrible way to start a relationship.

Unless the man is a real cretin, he is going to feel guilty about leaving his wife. If he doesn't feel guilty, then he's really a scary individual.

He will also worry about whether or not his girlfriend is going to cheat on him.

His girlfriend will probably make him miserable before too long because she knows he's a cheater & will not trust him.

Then eventually, when things aren't working out with the girlfriend, he's going to seriously regret leaving his wife. He will come crawling back on his hands and knees to get her back, but it will be too late because she will have found someone else and moved on.

And he has to start his life all over.

Answer 6

He might but probably not. He's running from a bad relationship to another person. He's going to try to deal with all the emotional baggage of the marriage and have the gf involved in all that. It will create a lot of tension down the road when the gf and ex have to deal with each other. In addition the gf will always have to wonder if he's looking for a different gf, if she was just a way of him getting out of his marriage and still having someone to warm his bed.

Answer 7

It’s possible, in rare situations. I have two different friends whose parents left each other for someone else like that, and they have now both now been married and happy for many years. It does happen. In the majority of affairs, the attraction is purely physical. But if you have two people who truly fall in love with each other and are able and willing to weather the storms of a divorce, especially with children involved, then lasting happiness is possible. I don’t believe that someone who has an affair will do it again with the next person necessarily. There are many reasons people have affairs and it’s not accurate to say all those people are at heart liars and cheaters.

Answer 8

This is the type of man who will always be on the lookout for something better. If you are the gf let him go . I know just tell the wife and she can eliminate a few of his options.

Answer 9

I used to think no, but a woman I work with had two husbands leave her for her then-best friends. Each ex is still married to the other woman. The woman I work with is 70, so the ex's have been remarried for quite some time.

Answer 10

You made an oath when you married. Did you marry for reasons that you found your missing rib (your wife) and desire to journey together through this lifetime. Did you really believe in commitment with your wife on all levels mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. The question you ask can only be answered by you. You need to be true to yourself so you can be true to others. I encourage you really search of what lifestyle do you want lead. A lifestyle with peace, contentment, faith, endurance, love, selflessness, patience, etc can only be achieve with having Jesus Christ as center and Lord of your life.

Many people make decisions on emotions and what makes them feel accepted and happy at the time. this may not have a long effect of happiness desire by you or wife or girlfriend. It takes more than emotions and physical attraction to build a solid relationship that is build on respect, trust, love, commitment, compromise, selflessness, endurance, etc.

Jesus is the center of my life and lord of my life. Yes, I do still have trials and tribulations that my husband and I go through; however Jesus gives us the strength, His love, His protection, and most of all he paid on calvary with His blood for our sins so that we may have everlasting life. God His Heavenly Father also yours and mine will see you through everything in your life. YOU just have to believe. Ask Jesus to come into your life if you don't already know him. Ask him to correct which is crooked in your life and He will straighten it out for you. Just believe.

I believe that whatever you ask of Jesus Christ and seek him and desire to have everlasting life. You will be a witness to your own life changes into a life beyond your imagine. Jesus is the answer!! God Bless