What is your secret? What advice do you give those who are having troubles? What little tips can yu give us all to improve our relationships?
Here is my tip: Do the best that you can to make your spouses day, a better one every day.
2007-09-07 03:20:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you all for your wonderful answers...those of you who are not in love, Get to work..you can change things...I did
2007-09-07 17:51:23 · update #1
been married 10 years. Be loving, respectful and forgiving. You should never get tired of saying I love you. One of the things that has worked for us is that we never go to bed angry after an argument. Make up sex has always been awesome :O)
2007-09-07 03:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am 26, and I have been married for 8 years on the 27th of October. I qualify that as a long time.. For me, I try to make sure my husband knows everyday how much I love him, I try to cheer him up when he is having a bad day ect. I also feel that he does the same for me.
Oh and by the way.. your tip is awesome
2007-09-07 10:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by Justin's Wife of 10 Years!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that your tip is the secret. If both spouses do that, then most of the problems go away. The other tip I would give is to learn how to forgive yourself and your spouse.
2007-09-07 10:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by Qyllix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be truthful in everything you do. Be honest and willing to except that the other person is not you. They are their own person and you fell for them because there was something that you felt with them that you don't feel with others. Marriage is only a success when both people work to make it one. I married my husband now of almost 17 years only after dating for a very short time. He asked me out, I went to his family's house on Valentine's and everyday there after, on our first official date which was only 13 days later he asked me to marry him. We got married April 13, 1991. We have had many ups and downs but working them out together and supporting each other is what makes it work for us.
2007-09-07 10:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Aprilbride 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We've been married 33 years; together 36. I always love him, but sometimes I don't like him very much - - which is something a lot of people don't understand. It's OK to have arguments, etc., but is very important to remember why you fell in love to begin with.
Your tip is wonderful, I think it is something we all could take to heart.
2007-09-07 10:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by howmidoin? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We will celebrate our 11th anniversary in November. Accept each other for who they are, be kind and respect for one another, laugh a lot together, have at least one thing in common you both like to do as a couple and don't forget to compliment one another. Everyone wants to feel loved and appreciated.
2007-09-07 10:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by Tarheel mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 years 2gether 10 married my biggest tip is: let each other be who they are. never attempt to change someone!
2007-09-07 11:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by **RUBY*** 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Been married 37 years and are motto is " BE KIND". We also always tell each other how much we love each other...
2007-09-07 10:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
22 years...not in love...don't expect people to change...
2007-09-07 10:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by runningman022003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋