how do i know if my friend is gay?

Answer 1

Don't ever assume anything....just wait for your friend to tell you.

Answer 2

ask him "Are you gay?"

or read the signs that he is...he doesn't like women. if he pretends he likes them he just says things about how they wear their clothes or make up..he knows probably alot about womens fashion.

they say gay men like to watch beauty pageants..hehe

the gay men i know (those ranging from paminta(still looks like a guy) to the gay all the way) have that look. its different when they look at you. & also the way they walk. their legs are closer w/ a bit of hip swaying from time to time. like women. or when they sit down. they don't really part their legs that much.

& if you're a guy too, you'll figure it out if he's hitting on you on certain occassions.

Answer 3

Ok.. seriously.. this works every time..

first of all him that he has something at the bottom of his shoe... when he looks at it.. if he crosses his leg while standing up and brings it in front of him to look, usually means hes not gay.. but.. if he bends that knee and lifts his leg behind him.. usually means his gay...

another one.. is that tell him he has something on his nails... if he looks at them with his fingers closed and palm facing his face.. thats a guy... if he looks at his nails like he just came from a manicure place.. usually means he is gay...

Answer 4

Go out with him, check if he look at girls or guys more often on the street. You also can check if he is attracted to you. You can feel it from the way he treats you, for example for might be very nice to you and he might look at you in a different manner.

Other action also tell like the way he dress, touch his hair and hand signal and also the way he talk.

Answer 5

Hmm, ok there are two kinds of gays (for guys). Usually in one relationship, there will be one who is the male and one who is the female like a normal relationship. .
The most common "gay" you can see is the girly ones. They behave like girls and may be even more feminine than most girls.

The other kind is the male, who are usually more manly. You may not be able to tell that he is gay (yeah, I have a friend who is very manly and girls who didn't know he is gay actually fell for him). He cross-dresses also, so most people who cross-dress are you know, migh not be normal (though I may be wrong).

But one thing about them is that they are very sensitive to girls' needs. Like they understand girls very well.

Speak to your friend and observe how he behaves. If he is gay, you should be able to tell by his actions.

Answer 6

if he is really your friend, it wouldnt really matter whether he is gay or not.

but if you really need to know & if he is really a friend of yours, you can always ask him.

& with his reply you can always read between the lines, or check his expression or the way he hesitates & see some little clue to know if he is telling the truth or not. & if he readily admits to it, then youll also have your answer as well.

but from experience, if there is some doubt, there is usually some truth to it.

Answer 7

you need to seriously talk to him....because you'll never know if he's gay until you ask him, especially when he's good in portraying and acting like a real man....but do not criticize him if he truly is gay instead support him...

Answer 8

I assume you're flip (filipino that is). Listen to Parokya ni Edgar's song "This Guy's In Love With You Pare".

To be on the safe side, cancel future sleep overs =).

Answer 9

If you drop something and pick it up. He's smiling after checking out your a$$. You ride in his car and he's playing either a George Michael or Ricky Matin cd.

Answer 10

check out your pinkie finger when he drinks from a glass
check out the way he wipes his mouth
if he's checking out guys, then uh huh he's gay
if he goes to gay.com then definitely gay
if his house is well decorated then he's gay
if he knows how to sew then he's gay

i've asked this question before,
most people say, don't ask the person!
i say, say it out loud, oh my god that guy over there is gorgeous
then wait for his reaction?
if he screams like a sheila then he is a sheila

Answer 11

My wife can tell faster than me. But, usually gay guys wiggle more than women - hehe.