I think I'm going to stop taking my birth control pills without him knowing and get pregnant. We are going through a lot right now. He is always going to strip clubs and getting high. It is ruining our relationship. I want us to get closer. My cousin got pregnant and her and her boyfriend got closer. But then he went to jail a few months later and she is with someone else now. But I love my man and I want him to stay at home with me.
2007-09-07 01:42:48 · 17 answers · asked by Nasty McCain 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I can tell that you are a very intelligent young lady and I really want you to do the right thing here. That must be the BEST IDEA EVER. He will have no choice but to love and marry you and be with you FOREVER. To make it even more guaranteed that he'll stay tell him it's a boy even if it's not and if you don't get married the baby will get your last name, unless he has other baby boys already he'll jump at the chance to make sure it carries his name. Good luck to you and your stupid family.
2007-09-07 01:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am not even going to say what will happen to your relationship. what i am going give you something to think about!
Do you have any idea how hard it is to raise a baby on your own?? your emotions are whacked out as it is and if this guy leaves you, then you will be alone with this innocent life.
You could possibly go through postpartum and that is really fun to do alone. Can you support this child by yourself.
Is it fair for this little life to be brought into this world because you want to keep the father around??? If you can not hold on to him now then what makes you think he will mature enough when a child is in the world?? strip clubs?? no baby is going to stop that.
I did it alone and i thought the baby would keep us strong. It kept us together for a little while but he still did what he wanted to do and I did EVERYTHING for that baby by myself and i became a depressed basketcase.
You better think long and hard about missing those pills because you may be putting yourself on the edge of a cliff and looking down and not sure if you want to jump or not.
Good luck to you and think with your brain and not with your heart.
2007-09-07 02:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by HEAVEN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely Not!!!!!!!!!!! Just remember if this relationship doesn't work out, there are other fish in the sea. Do not ever just settle on someone. Sounds to me like you are fairly young. Heartbreak is hard, but you will get over it. I personally wouldn't stay with a man who goes to strip clubs on a regular basis anyway. On occassion is ok, but not all the time. Having a child isn't the answer. Children are not like baby dolls, you have to care for them constantly. Make sure you are ready to become a mother with or without him if you decide to try to get pregnant. Good Luck!
2007-09-07 01:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by kepsaw 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW! ok nicely your boyfriend does not sound like a father form, sell off HIM! do no longer kill your unborn infant because of the fact a egocentric Douchebag tells you too. He additionally needed the child precise?? Now he realizes which you ultimately have a baby(nicely are pregnant with one) the child did no longer ask to be right here, you needed it. Now he does not choose it he possibly will never choose a baby, he gets you pregnant with one yet then inform you to abort it. Will you particularly have the skill to forgive your self in case you have an abortion and your boyfriend comes up with yet one greater reason to bypass away you? No you will no longer have the skill to. Ask a relative for help, communicate with a counselor. they'll inform you what the superb factor to do right it is, yet the two you and that i and each physique else is conscious what the main suitable factor to do right it is.
2016-10-04 03:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by teresa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting pregnant is the WORST thing you could do. If he's going to strip clubs and getting high, he doesn't care as much about you as you obviously do him. Getting pregnant would just make him feel trapped and there's nothing to stop him from leaving you if you were. Men are scum. Learn that lesson and you will do much better. DO NOT GET PG!
2007-09-07 01:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are insane if you think it will help your relationship. What a situation to bring a baby into. Poor little thing.It's not a doll! Do you have any morals at all? You do not know what love is or you wouldn't ask this question, and you're thinking of making a tiny innocent baby pay for your stupidity. Grow up!
2007-09-07 01:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by survivor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! Getting pregnant will only make matters worse!
Get this guy out of your life before it is too late! You are headed for misery down the road.
Do not allow yourself to get pregnant! I cannot stress that enough! If he is doing drugs and you get pregnant what ever drug he is doing the baby will be addicted to. You don't want that! The baby will have defects and you'll be very vindictive against him in life .
2007-09-07 02:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ink Corporate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dar-dar-dar.. lol that's what that sounds like..
GIRL do you know what your saying right now? just move on. he's not the last coka-coka in the dessert!! why do girls feel like there's only one guy that will ever make them happy... i was just like you and now i have a new great perfect wonderful boyfriend.. you know where my ex is? the one who i thought i would die without? with some girl who he's been with for 1yr n a half, with a 3 month old baby boy working at a pawn shop.. you know where i am? im in school, just got a new car, have an awesome b/f who i cannot complain about and i have a great job.... please contact me if you'd like to talk about this.... dont be a stupid girl and ruin your life for some ****** who doesnt desserve it.
2007-09-07 02:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you gained this excellent advice from the Brittney Spears Book of Deportment (a great read by the way at $12.95). However, I have been recently informed that K-Fed is now shagging Brittney's mum so it may backfire (if you consider that a bad thing).
2007-09-07 01:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.. The only reason he will get closer with you is because of the baby, not you.
2007-09-07 01:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋