and make fools of our selves and then feel bad? Or am I the only one?
2007-09-07 01:37:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are not the first. People will continue to set them selves up for heartbreak, and continue to fall for people. It's kind of a desired need to be loved, or to love.
2007-09-07 02:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't fall easily for any woman. I am extremely selective.
It is the way she is in her heart and in her mind (the real stuff) that attracts me first. If I am attracted to that, then there must be physical chemistry.
I am so picky. A woman can be drop dead gorgeous but if I sense the slightest bit of crashness, harshness or "loose ways" then I get turned off - except for platonic friendship. I simply don't want to be with a woman who enjoys being "passed around and used" occasionally just for fun and a good time.
Good question! And Ian from Barnes, you are not the only one. I think just about everybody wants to have a special someone.
Hope everyone has a great Friday and a great weekend. I have been so ragged out at work this week - been training another software developer. He is nice to work with but I am so glad for the weekend. YAY! LOL!
2007-09-07 09:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone! I fell for this one guy. I loved his hair. It was so curly! I met him on the beach that night and we done the wild thing. I got up the next morning in search of him and only to find him gone! Boo Hoo! Oh, will. At least he helped me make it through a rough time that I had been going through at home. Of course, this was a very long time ago. I still think about him. I just treasured the moment we had and tried not to feel like a fool and looked at what kind of feeling that he had brought me! Yea, I was having a rough time with my parents at that time. I said a prayer for him and went on my way in life. I don't remember his whole name. Just his sweet hair. I thanked the creator for sending him my way to make me forget about the troubling waters that was at bay in home.
2007-09-13 18:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's human nature for us to want what we cannot have.
You're not the first to think of himself as the "court jester". I had a crush on a guy for 7 years at work but would never approach him. Simply because it was at work and I wasn't going to risk my career over lust. After he retired (he was an older fella but G O R G E O U S) I wrote to him, told my reasons for asking.
Alas, he said I made the wrong assumption of his actions (he would stand in front of me outside the office, got behind me on an elevator when I was the only one on, got behind me in a department store, started parking on the same side of the office lot as I did etc. etc.).
So, my best girl friend said she was feeling lonely. I told her to contact him (she and I both were chasing him), she did, she got the date, she told me all the details!
So dude, if you're gonna ask this guy, ask him. All he can say is no. Keep us informed of the results!
2007-09-12 17:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Phurface 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that we all fall to quick that is why we make fools of ourselves . i have a friend and she is a great person but she meets some girl and the next day she is in love with her and yes she of course makes a fool of herself . u arent the only one
2007-09-11 23:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human nature is part of falling for someone. The need to be partnered is an amazing thing. We all need a partner. So sometimes we "fall" for someone who isn't quite right, then feel stupid afterwards. You are one of MILLIONS that have done this and we will continue to do this forever. Its Life.
2007-09-13 16:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by the fnho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's all about projection; we see what we want to see, and we ignore everything about the person that our friends see. I have fallen for some fine-*** women, and I felt so lucky to be in their atmosphere, but my friends saw right through her. I ignored them, but eventually, she'd get comfortable and show her true colors.
2007-09-14 09:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by indianwest62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all fall for someone, but make fools of ourselves? Not my case boy...
2007-09-08 15:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just the way it is, you fall for there charms and believe your in love sometimes it's true and you stay with them no matter what and it last forever, sometimes it just don't work and it hurts like hell . until you fall in love and do it all again .
2007-09-07 11:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by doseonesbest 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im exactly the same.
My biggest problem has always been that I expect my standards to be everyones standards and i tend to forget we are all different.
2007-09-15 08:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by failte1950 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋