2007-09-06 23:22:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Its not about liking or disliking them. You can hate them all you want... its about respect. In the end, they did raise you, not matter how badly they were at it. Your mother went through labor to get you out, you father paid the bills and put food on your plate, and they gave you a home to sleep in. So you do owe them respect, if nothing else.
2007-09-06 23:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by amy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. But if you're going to truly dislike them, I'd suggest giving some serious thought first to whether it's deserved. You might want to start by making a list of what they've done for you, versus what you think they haven't done or have done poorly. If you give it some truly honest thought, you'll probably find some things that you've taken for granted that they've sacrificed for you. Such as their social lives, their freedom to work or not work or choose different work, etc.
2007-09-07 06:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by dr_usual 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether you have a good reason.
If they have abused you (touched you in naughty places, hit you beyond light discipline, not been present and there for you, starved, denied drinking water, not clothed, not allowed you to bathe or not sheltered you, made you live in fear, continually put you down) then there is a valid reason.
With people in general, when we dislike someone for poor behavior, it is ok to dislike someone for their poor behavior.
Getting grounded, or lectured on something for your poor behavior is not a reason. Being restricted from doing something you want to do, is not a reason either.
2007-09-07 06:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by bumbass2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your belief system.
No one likes everyone and especially not all the time.
Some people aren't very likeable.
It's normal to go through a stage where you are disillusioned with your parents.
I don't think there is anything wrong with not liking someone.
It is what you do about it that counts.
I believe in treating people with courtesy unless they are abusive and then I might need to make boundaries.
I think it helps to look for what IS likeable in people that we have to spend more time around.
And that we can love someone even when we are not liking them.
2007-09-07 06:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ephesians 6:1,2,3,4 Children obey your parents in the Lord for this is right,
Honor thy father and thy mother; which is the first commandment with promise;
That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long upon the earth.
And ye Fathers provoke not your children unto wrath; but bring them uip in the nurture and admonition of the Lord
Yes it is wrong.
2007-09-07 06:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey mikey h i know what you're saying ---BUT----
it takes too much energy to dislike or hate somebody
i don't even think about the woman who brought me into this world as once again -- it takes too much energy
and i sure don't call her anything if i don't have to
ocassionally people will ask me how she is and when i say "who ? oh you mean doris?" they are usually smart enough to figure it out
they drop it
2007-09-07 08:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by bassetfreak 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, my dad abandon my family years ago and i haven't seen or talked to him since so i think i can say that i truly dislike one of my parents. hes a dead beat
2007-09-07 06:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends
If they constantly put you down over the years and criticise you like mine did then you never forget that kind of stuff.
That is why I truly dislike my mom, I even hate calling her that aswell.
2007-09-07 06:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i honestly think that it's wrong to do so... well, unless there is a very appropriate and important reason for disliking them. :)
2007-09-07 06:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by klarity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong as long as there's a truly good, serious reason for it.
2007-09-07 06:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by HCB 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋