my mom wouldn't let me go hang out with other kids from my grade level(7th grade) at the mall on friday because of her lame excuse of 'i dont know their report cards' and the fact that one of her friend's daughter doesnt feel like going so my mom doesnt feel safe about the idea of me going to the mall with my friends. i mean. wtf??? what should i do? im so angry with her.
2007-09-06 21:52:48 · 13 answers · asked by dylandude=) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
show her how responsible you are... :D
2007-09-06 21:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Im sure youre pretty upset but think of how your mom feels,
Look,my mom was just as bad when I was in my teens,she wouldn't let me go anywhere.I would always get pissed off,stomp to my room,slam the door and CUSS HER OUT! (She couldnt hear me though).
Once some of the anger would go away my mom would try to tell me that it wasn't me she didn't trust.
I never understood what she meant by that till now.
I now have a 15 year old son and I love him with all my heart,he is in the 9th grade.
He now comes to me and asks me the same questions I would ask my mom."Mom,can I go to the mall/movies with my friends?' Answer,NO. And then guess what,he goes stomping to his room,slams the door and im pretty sure he is cussing me out,The same way I did my mother.
The only difference is ,Now,I understand what my mom ment.
Look,it's not you your moms worried about and,Its not you your mom doesnt trust.
Its the people now days,im not pointing fingers at anyone but,think about it,anything could happen to you.You never know what other people are gonna say or do now days.
How many times have you heard of accidents happening or someone just snapping for no reason and killing people?Alot.
What I mean is,I know your mad at your mom but, just try to realize that its cause she loves you and she doesnt want to take the chance of anything bad happening to you.
It took me till now to understand my mother and how bad she must have really felt to have to tell me no.But now I now her reasons.
Your mom loves you,One day you will realize this when that same two letter word comes out of your mouth to your own child.
Go give your mom a hug,she probably feels bad.
Good luck
2007-09-06 22:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by trymybest 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let's see..your in the seventh grade (what 13 or 14); you live under your Mothers roof, she feeds you, clothes you....that pretty much says you will follow her rules, until you can prove to her that you are mature enough to handle the responsibilities of such a PRIVILEGE. Guess what?! My getting "so angry" with her you are demonstrating just the opposite. Get over it.....until you can show her a little more respect, maturity and responsibility, sounds like she's not going to budge!!
2007-09-06 22:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be thankfull you have a mom who cares She wants to know who your friends are what they are about and if there good for you to be around She does not want you hanging out with the wrong crowd getting into trouble and doing things you are not suppose to Ask if you can invite your friends and there parents to your house so your mom can meet them Thank your mom for careing and let her know you appreciate her and what she does
2007-09-06 22:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by chameleon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
parent's have instinct of protecting there childrens as always,it's just a simple prob you have,try to look too if what kind of friend you have why your mother wont allow you to hang with them.,then if you think they are safe enough to be with try to find your mom's weakness.,convencing her that you responsible enough goin with them.,sometime mom are strict but with a reason.,your mom know what best for you,try to obey and respect her cause i know mom looking forward for your good future..who know's this well happen again he will let you at this time..
2007-09-06 22:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by aqoniCgie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should probably bring your friends to see your mother so that your mother will know that they're OK. then, your mother will allow you to be with them. Don't be angry with your mother, the fact that she don't allow you to hang around with the others because she cares about you and she doesn't want you to learn bad.
2007-09-06 22:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by Grand 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do they have marks on their report cards for the kind of friends they are? I think not. Trying to pick your friends for you is totally out of line. Stick to your guns, and pick your own friends.
2007-09-06 21:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell ur mom for one chance.. and u must be responsible of that chance, if u r failed, u cant hang out with ur friend again..
2007-09-06 22:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i've been like that before, i cant go out coz my mom thought i cant handle or take care myself.. tell her and ask her nicely, "mom, i really wanna go, just for once! ".
2007-09-06 22:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by adelia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just show her that you know how to make good decisions. When you indicate to her that you always try make good decisions, she will be more likely to let you go.
2007-09-06 21:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have a tantrum cupcake. You're bloody lucky you have a Mum.
2007-09-06 22:00:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋