alright so I am 19 y/o guy but I bet in 20 years this statement will be true. I dont get why girls have never liked me in all my years. I just graduated high school and now just started college. Not one girl in all my highschool ever liked me, never went to dances or prom, cuz who would want to go with me no one. I might be really shy but mainly cuz no girl has ever shown any interest in me at all. I am athletic/built like a boxer cuz I am a boxer and a damn good one. I am nice,kind,respectful. I am pretty good looking never been told otherwise. I am smart always had not to bad grades not 4.0 but always above 3.0. I can have fun doing just about anything. So I dont get y no girl has ever been attracted to me. I think its time to give up on girls cuz they dont want anything to do with me so I might as well just forget about it. So when I am 40 I wont only be a virgin but never kissed or touched a girl really in anyway.
2007-09-06 21:30:20 · 8 answers · asked by Me,Myself, and I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So in 20 years I can come back here and that statement will actually be true. I just dont get why girls dont like me???? But o well I am done trying to figure girls out and was just meant to be alone I guess
2007-09-06 21:30:52 · update #1
I think that you just haven't met enough people yet. Wait like, 4 months into college and I'm sure you will have met a great girl by then.
Hey, if you're really worried why don't you post a picture of yourself? Some single lady may just jump on that!
2007-09-06 22:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by hotsurfer55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of these people are right, "You are 'only' 19" so you still have plenty of time. I was 16 years old before I ever was really kissed at all.
You seem like a nice guy who could be waiting for the right woman. I will tell you it is worth while. I never regretted my first kiss. He was also my first relationship and lasted over 3 years and we almost got married.
I think the older you are the more you know who you are looking for and the more likely you will find her. When the place, time, and you are ready it will be your time. Take your time and I promise you will never regrett it.
2007-09-07 23:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop viewing yourself in such a negative manner. People pick on on confidence, and it's the people who like themselves that find other people who like them as well. And it sounds kinda like the "easy way out" when you say you may as well give up. Nothing comes without sacrifice. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. You should try to find a book on self esteem. That is the key that will open the door for all the girls to come in!
2007-09-07 04:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysinhoth2o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief, man, you're only NINETEEN! But you're right about your attitude - a very jaded, world-weary, disillusioned 40 year old! Could this possibly be why girls don't seem to be interested?
Tell me, have you ever approached a girl, just to chat? Because you say "no girl has ever shown any interest in me at all". Have you ever shown any interest in one single individual girl? People who sit at home complaining that nobody cares about them seem to believe others should be beating a path to their door.
Wise up! If you don't go out looking for them, nobody's going to come to you. Start making contact with other people, talk to girls you like, show an interest in them - ask them about themselves, their lives, hobbies, interests, activities. Find out who they are as individuals. Everybody likes someone to show an interest in them.
Well, YOU do, don't you? That's why you're feeling so down at the moment, because nobody IS showing that interest! So understand that what you're feeling is exactly what we would all be feeling, if we waited for others to seek us out. That tends mostly to happen AFTER we've shown an interest in them.
So up and at 'em! Get out there and talk to people, and if you go on doing it through the year, I bet you'll have that date for the next dance. As long as you see yourself as such a loser on the social front, nobody's going to be interested, because when you feel like that about yourself, whether or not you know it, other people can see it, too. It shows, and it's a complete turn-off.
Stop waiting for that queue of people all desperate to talk to you - go out there, engage people in conversation, be pro-active - LIVE YOUR LIFE!!
wimsey
2007-09-07 05:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all, you are NOT meant to be alone. You're 19 for god sakes!
You have soooooooooooooooo much living to do and sooooooooooooo much to learn about yourself.
I'll tell you what: Learn about yourself, build up your self confidence, and the girls will come! I promise you.
There's nothing more sexy than a man who is self confident and KNOWS IT.
2007-09-07 04:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by Leia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls won't let on that they like you. They want guys to make the first move unfortunatly so we have to put ourselves out there and face rejection to know whether they like you.
It's tough being a guy!
2007-09-07 05:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The law of averages indicates to me that you have just not approached enough women. If you approach enough, one of them is bound to like you!!! It's like that joke about the really good looking guy asking the ugly guy how he gets so lucky with women. The ugly guy says to him, "It just takes me more tries than you!"
2007-09-07 04:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah but the question is, have you ever kissed a boy.
2007-09-07 07:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by Gator fan 483 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋