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If a guy grows up without a father in his life, because the father abandoned the family, and he had only a mom and some older brothers, how do you think this affects his outlook on life?
How would this affect his relationship with his older siblings, especially if one of those siblings was at least 10 yrs older?
Would the constant need for acceptance and affection drive him to the brink of suicide eventually and if he decided NOT to commit suicide, how would he fulfill his need for affection?
And also If he had kids, would he reject them?

2007-09-06 19:18:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

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NO. Why do you think so. You father not being there has nothing to do with you that's his problem. I only met my father once and I'm fine with it. Its his lost. I now have a little girl and love her to death. If anything it will make you a better father, because you want to give you child everything your father didn't give you. YOU WILL BE FIND, NOW IF YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT SUICIDE THEN IT SOMETHING ELSE. PLEASE SEEK HELP. You don't need your father to be a good man.

2007-09-06 19:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Fatherless children are at a dramatically greater risk of drug and alcohol abuse, mental illness, suicide, poor educational performance, teen pregnancy, and criminality.

Source: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, National Center for Health Statistics, Survey on Child Health, Washington, DC, 1993.

http://www.photius.com/feminocracy/facts_on_fatherless_kids.html

http://www.search.com/search?q=teens+without+father+will+have+suicidal+tendencies

2007-09-06 22:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by d_r_siva 7 · 0 0

it affects outlook however the guy wants it to.
the guy can request the universe for healthy male role models if no relatives are available.
just think of the fairy tale male role models and measure the live ones you meet against those.
the universe will present you with family you have not had.
if you permit it to. (it seems to be in the permission)
if the kids were conceived in universal love, they would not be rejected, but seen only as enhancements and expressions of the love.

2007-09-07 02:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

All worries or fears are baseless.It would be quite natural for you to love your children more than others because you know better.To reciprocate, your kids are bound to be more affectionate towards you,It's a given law of nature.People like you always make good parent,brother,husband and other relations because they know first hand what it means to be deprived of love.All in all,you shall prove to be a better person in all relationships.Good luck.

2007-09-06 19:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0 0

No. God is your SAVIOR Turn to him he will turn your life around. It is God that will turn your life around. Pray to him Believe in him. HE has accepted you and Approved of you. He LOVES you and wants the Best for you. YOU are his CHILD, he is YOUR FATHER. Seek him with all your heart soul and mind.....and your life will dramatically change absolutely guaranteed
He died on the Cross for you. He has given you Eternal Life in Heaven...He is YOUR father. He will be all the approval and all the acceptance and all the Love that YOU ever need.

2007-09-06 19:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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