Do you ever feel that you are not good enough?
2007-09-06 17:46:38 · 45 answers · asked by ? 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You are good enough, I just wasn't good enough for you.
2007-09-07 00:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by •♣•Ninja•♣• •♣•Bunny•♣• 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
yes i used to feel like that almost all the time i used to have a very low self esteem and it has taken me years to gain confidnece in myself and learn to love myself but i have done it.
however there are still times when i feel like i'm not good enough either for a job i get rejected for or a family member who calls me a lazy sponge, or sometimes i just feel like i cant live up to what some expect from me all i can do is try me level best to make myself a better person and to better my self image and to gain more confidence in myself and to grow as a person and to make life changes because i want to not because someone tells me i have to or else. Someone recently told me that i tend to procratanate because i wallow in fear and lazyness and heck ya that hurt but its the truth and so i did some soul searching a lot of it and i feel like i can change myself make my own life better and not depend on others to do this for me. so i can go after that job and not be afraid of rejection and i can get out there and just be me and be good enough all the time because if i'm good enough for myself then that should darn well be good enough for the others that know me and also the strangers that do not know me. and you know i dont give a crap anymore what others think of me!!!!!!!!!! i will continue a journey that i started a long time ago to be healthier to be happier and to be finacially stable and to finish my education and to just be me but a better me and the only reason i will do this is for me because i love myself and now i have respect for myself and those are things that i did not have a while back in my life. things that i have worked very hard to acheive.
a very hard lesson learned got to do things for yourself because no else is going to do them for you and you can not depend upon others forever you must learn to depend on you and only you.
2007-09-06 18:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by ♥musiclover♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quite frequently... and i'm not the kind of person that's ever trying to impress anyone. lol that's that sad part! I'm myself wherever i go or whatever i do, but sometimes when certain people are snotty to me for whatever reason (mainly their egocentricity i'm sure lol), it makes me feel bad sometimes (not all the time, but sometimes).
But, i'll tell you the truth, we are all insecure in different ways about different things. So, why let someone else's rudeness affect they way you think about yourself? In those moments, when you feel like you don't measure up, you have to step back away from yourself for a minute or two..... and let that negativity go, realise who you are as a person, be confident in yourself and your abilities, and realise it was their problem, not yours; and it was their insecurities, not you personally, that made them be so awful to you that they made you feel like crap.
2007-09-06 18:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the time
2007-09-06 23:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by DL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am made to feel that way everyday of my life!
I'm not doing enough, I'm not good enough!
You know a lot of us are hurting with you today!
I am sorry!
2007-09-06 22:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the times
2007-09-07 02:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thinking iz just a procees but the thing iz tht wht the output iz, so just give ur best shot for a wonderfull output whtever the result may be
2007-09-06 18:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, yes ! But it takes an affection from someone to make it better life.
2007-09-06 22:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always tried my best to be good enough. But sometimes we are just human. We are not angel, please bear this in mind.....and no one is perfect.
Love conquers all even if you are not good enough.....if it don't, it is not love.
I felt heartbreak in you and this make me sad.
Hugs
2007-09-06 19:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by † Iríšh † 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll find the right one. Most people feel that way at some point in their lives.
2007-09-06 17:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by Nico 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋