2007-09-06 17:24:08 · 41 answers · asked by ? 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Sweetheart it will take time! Try to keep busy and think positive thoughts!
I know you probably aren't wanting to hear this yet, but there are a lot of fish in that big old ocean!!! You have a lot of us who really care!
Love ya
2007-09-06 22:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you say that you can't go on
Love left you cryin'
And you say all your hope is gone
And what's the use in tryin'
What you need is to have some faith
Shake off those sad blues
Get yourself a new view
Oh, nothing is a sad as it seems, you know
'Cause someday you'll laugh at the heartache
Someday, you'll laugh at the pain
Somehow you'll get through the heartache
Somehow you can get through the rain
CHORUS:
When love puts you through the fire
When love puts you through the test
Nothing cures a broken heart
Like time, love and tenderness
When you think your world is over
Baby just remember this
Nothing heals a broken heart
Like time, love and tenderness
Time, love and tenderness
I understand how you're feeling now
And what you've been through
But your world's gonna turn around
So baby don't you be blue
All it takes is a little time
To make it better
The hurt won't last forever
Oh, all the tears are gonna dry you know
'Cause someday you'll laugh at the heartache
Someday you'll laugh at the pain
You may be down on your luck
But baby that old lucks gonna change
CHORUS:
Baby, oh baby you just need some
You just need some
Time, love and tenderness
Time, love and tenderness
The hurt ain't gonna last forever
Time, love and tenderness
Time, love and tenderness
2007-09-06 17:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by F-1 says KISS IT! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can say mending a broken heart is the most hardest thing to do. There's no best immediate way at all . NO WAY at all for "time being".
Maybe there's a way to EASE the pain, that's all available. Throw all your sorrow out and let tears washed away the pain, open up your mind and let reality console you.
2007-09-06 19:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by † Iríšh † 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have the answer but,
Reminds me of a Bee Gees Song................
And how can you mend a broken heart?
How can you stop the rain from falling down?
How can you stop the sun from shining?
What makes the world go round?
How can you mend a this broken man?
How can a loser ever win?
Please help me mend my broken heart and let me live again.
2007-09-06 17:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Breathe. All you can do is survive this first and difficult day. Take one day at a time. Give yourself permission to mourn. Call in sick at work, sleep all day, eat too much ice cream, sob.
Congratulate yourself for being human. Develop and repeat a helpful mantra to get you through the initial shock and pain, such as "This too shall pass" or "I will survive."
Reach out to a close friend or family member. It helps to share your thoughts with others. Watch a movie to distract yourself. Choose a comedy that has cheered you up in the past. Or watch a movie that's guaranteed to make you sob--it may surprise you how good that feels.
An finally butch up bit. There are a lot of people out there in far worst shape im shore. An they get threw life.
2007-09-06 17:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Bee Gees addressed this very question in 1971 and they didn't find an answer either.
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/b/bee+gees/how+can+you+mend+a+broken+heart_20015649.html
Maybe the question is rhetorical - maybe there is no mending. Maybe we just go on to someone/something else and that little piece of our heart stays broken forever. Always there but most often forgotten. Something will restore the memory and there it is again - but only for a little while. And then we move on...
2007-09-06 17:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by CoachT 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Stop looking at the past try go,move forward. Try not to compare,the next person,2 the past person.Think how lucky you are to be rid of the person your heart is broken over....Give your self time don't rush,you'll end up the same way.
2007-09-06 17:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by fred a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be broken but it's still beating. Listen to a few sad songs and cry along..... then let it go no matter how many things seem to be reminders. Do something nice for yourself, laugh, eat chocolate & remember: this too shall pass.
2007-09-06 17:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by uber empress 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lot's of ice cream, a few good cries, spend time with friends, and when your done with that find something that will occupie your mind so you won't think about what broke your heart in the first place.
2007-09-06 17:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by bloodyakiko 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I think that time is the only thing that can heal a broken heart.
2007-09-07 03:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by Tony M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋