and they looking for something meaningful or just something to fulfill what is lacking in the bed room?
2007-09-06 17:22:33 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
my boyfriend says they get bored and the wife isn't trying anymore.
I say it's prob the same....men want what they can't have. being married means he can't have other women so he wants them even more and eventually is the wife isn't there enough for him he'll go to someone else.....
Women cheat too and it's easy for women to cheat. How many times have you been standing at a grocery store or gas station and had someone hit on you? I've had that plenty of times and there's always going to be women who don't care if the man is taken so she'll do her thing with him....
if women cared more about other women this wouldn't even be an issue.
2007-09-06 17:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Music 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
As I've told you before, I'm a bartender. I've seen both married men and women slip off their rings countless times. I have no idea. Sometimes, marriage becomes a very lonely life. Two people get stuck in routine of being together and take each other for granted sometimes. This leads to a loveless marriage. Which some people decide to change by spicing up their marriage, and changing the situation between the person they committed to spending the rest of their life with. Others decided to spice up their love life by changing the person they spend time with. When a marriage becomes something that just holds two people together spending time, it becomes something where other partners come into the picture.
As I said, marriage can be a very lonely thing. And in that, people will do anything to feel the love that their relationship had but no longer provides. My parents growing up were cheating on each other for years. For all I know, they still are. They can't afford divorce and have more or less given up on their marriage and are only married on paper.
2007-09-07 01:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. E. Bunny A.K.A. Andy. 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly and ive seen this on a sex-talk show we got bored of same same same same sameway sameperson samestuff obviosly it will get annoying without spark
I dont know if youre married or only askin but the answer is to play around you know, go on a park por places were they can catch ya act like a maid or schoolgirl set up the atmosphere try super cool new stuff you have never done before and that way the big dude will nver cheat cause that is the reason ill would cheat (iF i was married and that will happen in a super long time)
2007-09-06 17:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
IT doesn't always have 2 b the bed room where the problem is. It could b lack of compatibly. All married men aren't the same all don't cheat.
2007-09-06 17:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by fred a 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
style and temptation. those are the biggest motives, we become uninterested in ingesting the comparable nutrition every day,, so each and every as quickly as in awhile we prefer to have a distinctive dish, Plus if the spouse is boring, moody, not adventurous, then we've the mind-blowing to stray and attempt some thing new wild and exciting ! Plus, if the spouse isn't giving the husband what he needs and desires interior the mattress room, then the husband basically is going accessible and properly-knownshows it someplace else.
2016-10-18 04:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by gustavo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think most of them are looking for anything meaningful because most married men who cheat don't intend on leaving their wives. They are just looking for some excitement on the side. Whatever the reason it's still wrong.
2007-09-06 17:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Usually it has nothing to do with the wife or girlfriend. Sex at home or being bored. Us men just like beautiful women and I think we are not wired like women to be monogamous. The variety I guess. Oh I know that women cheat like men do, but not on the same scale. ( I think?)
2007-09-06 17:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by cjb 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's probably very similar to the reasons that some married women cheat... You addition to the question could both be the answer...there are lots of reasons that people do these things. I for one don't understand it, if your not happy then why stay?
2007-09-06 17:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by jimstock60 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For the same reasons Married women cheat...
2007-09-06 17:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think they have the intention of leaving their wife. I might be to just spice up their sex life. Maybe the excitement of doing something naughty gets them hot? I'm sure all men do it for different, but also similar reasons.
2007-09-06 17:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋