Both my girlfriend and i are 19, i am bisexual and she is aware of this. We have been talking about haveing a 3some!! The only thing that im unsure of if we should do it with a guy or a girl? And im not sure how we could find someone todo it with. Lastly and most imporant! I dont know if we are supose to set rules (ex: you cant **** the otha girl, or the otha guy cant **** my g/f...ect) Or is it anything goes? Thankyou!!!!
2007-09-06 15:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by Jordan C 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The major problem with 3-somes is often all 3 often feel left out at one point or another. So communication is important and a good understanding/rust that no one is trying to "steal". Given this, the most important rule is that if any of you feel left out or aren't being touched, do your best to to make the other 2 feel better. All of you should commit to doing your best to making the other 2 to feel as good s possible.
The first time you try it may be really similar to the first time you had sex or didn't anything else for the first time -- it may totally bomb. If both of you are really interested in it, you need to realize that it will take practice, communication, understanding and trust.
2007-09-06 15:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy who has been there a couple words. M/F depends where you're gf is more comfortable since you don't seen to have a preferrence. Listen though if this is a girl you really care about this maybe a bad idea. I know it sounds like fun and it is. However it can be hard if it's someone who is more than a fling. If you do this search your souls first and definitely set rules.
2007-09-06 22:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anson W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key to it all is communication. I won't pretend to know a lot about threesomes, but I know the most important thing is to talk to each other. Setting rules is definitely a good idea, and you should both discuss whether you think it'd be a better idea to do it with a guy or a girl.
2007-09-06 22:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by Aura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rules for a 3-some....remember to breathe
2007-09-06 22:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by WildOne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that threesomes most likely ruin relationships. About 90% of the people I've talked to who have had one has broken up with their bf/gf because of it. I wouldn't recommend it.
2007-09-06 22:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by Frozen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the best rule for 3somes... Leave one out.
2007-09-06 22:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The difference between group therapy and group sex is that in group therapy everyone talks about their problem; with group sex, everyone sees your problem."
--Dennis Miller
2007-09-06 22:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by appalachianlimbo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's disgusting................at least use some protection
2007-09-06 23:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋