My boyfriend recently took me to a clothing optional beach. I got quite an eyeful--my first time. I keep thinking about all those men in the all together. Do I need to experience more before I commit to my boyfriend? Is it normal to be so interested in seeing men this way?
2007-09-06 15:15:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Its normal to be interested, especially if its something you haven't seen before. It's when you act on your interests that's things could get messy. I mean, if youre ready go for it with your boyfriend, but don't do it with other men.
I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about your feelings... is he moving too fast for you? Don't rush into anything if you're not ready. Remember that relationships don't work if you can't talk to each other, so you should talk to your boyfriend. Just let him know that you don't have much experience and ask him what he expects of you. Experience doesn't really matter though, everybody has to have a first time, just don't do anything unless you are ready.
2007-09-06 15:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe you have your answer, you may just not want to look at it for whatever reason, perhaps because you feel that your decision affects your relationship so drastically. Decide based on how you feel, and not how anyone else does. If you stay with your b/f will you be happy or unhappy living this way? It's really all on you to decide. No one else can give you your answer. People can make judgments about this being right or wrong. But the facts remain the same regardless. You must follow your instincts. You already know if this is naughty or nice for you, and only for you.
Blessed Be
2007-09-10 01:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Linda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have always been interested in naked women. Breasts size has always been Paramount. But a women wearing clothing will always show her breasts size thorough her clothes, a man can always hide his privates in his pants. So it is the men who lose, who must show their private parts in a naked beach, So I say go for it.
2007-09-07 12:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Do you think that he got an eyeful? He probably did and probably think about the other girls too. But it is only natural so there's nothing to really worry about unless you start acting on things.
2007-09-06 15:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Eazy-E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only human nature to want to look, but when looking leads to something more then you have a problem.
2007-09-06 15:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile. It is perfectly normal to look around, but you might not want to touch them after all... Not all good looking things are good for your well being...
2007-09-06 17:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by ms.sophisticate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of coarse, try expirementing with your sexuality, masturbate and be open minded.Enjoy it with him.
2007-09-06 15:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jessicca Francis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋