he's been one of my closest friends for yrs and before, i wouldn't ever look at him as "hot" - he was someone
i always valued and we talked to each other about everything. he's secretly liked me (had no clue), shy guy,
late bloomer, he can only be open with me - never had a gf or kiss (in his 20's)
Fell for each other hard beg of this year - gave him his first kiss and for a moment we were together - it was amazing.
I NEVER expected to fall for him but it was amazing...we kissed, cuddled, took care of each
other for a "moment" (nothing too much but gave him his first kiss :)...we decided not to rush things
and just to stay friends - we're young and focused on getting school done and there's too much on our plate.
after this happened, he had lost someone close to him and he shut me out. For the next few months we haven't
spoken or seen each other. While this was going on, rumors and assumptions were flying around our friends and
pretty much a bad case of misunderstanding occured between us so by the time we would talk, we insecure and jealous.
I don't know why but i'm so scared of losing him. I'm not the jealous type at all, i'm very easygoing. I've only had one boyfriend
(high school) and even w. him I didn't feel like this. For as long as i've known him he's always had alot of girl friends and that's no
big deal but just scared that one of his friends might look at him differently the way it happened w. me. I never expected to
see him like that b/c we're friends but i fell for him. He's such an amazing person, has strengths and flaws but he's a catch...
i'm just scared there's gonna be someone better than me he'd go to...why am i like this?
2007-09-06 12:37:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You silly rabbit, because you Love him = )
2007-09-06 12:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ivan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you two are that close and have been for years, then you will get through it.
It sounds like the two of you need to take a trip together, away from everyone else so you both can sort out exactly where your relationship is...and where it might be heading. Good luck.
2007-09-06 19:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweatheart...you need to go to him and communicate everything that you feel. He doesn't know what is going on in your mind and you need to be honest with him. He lost someone that evidently meant a lot to him and that affected him for awhile. I would just go to him and hug him and tell him how much you care because he probably really wants that to.
2007-09-07 00:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's meant to be, will be...just relax and enjoy life
2007-09-06 20:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by Maddison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋