hi...im a boy but i wanna know this for mygirlfriend..is it possible?..i asked this question before and someone said 'try another holes'! but i want that one..and she insists that she wants to be a virgin?what do i do now?is there anyway?
2007-09-06 12:26:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You must not respect her very much to even consider "other holes." She must have plenty of respect for herself to want to remain a virgin, you need to give her the same level of respect.
2007-09-06 12:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by ripsgracie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The term virginity suggest that a person is "pure" and has never had vaginal or anal sex before. When a person has vaginal (regular) or anal sex, they are no longer in their "pure" state and can no longer be considered a virgin. Whether you have sex or not, if your penis enters her vagina or anus, she is no longer a virgin, whether she believes she is or not. Having had sex and then telling people you're still a virgin is lying to your friends and family.
If she wants to be a virgin, then the answer is simple - don't have sex, whether it's anal or vaginal.
If you've already had sex, then neither you or her are virgins.
2007-09-06 12:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Alley S. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
(Shaking my head)
How old are you???? Good Lord
If you even have to ask a question like that you really have no business having sex.
If she insists on staying a virgin why are you pushing her to have sex with you? Some boyfriend you are.
You need to respect her choices and leave it at that.
It's 2007 and people are still clueless!! (Shaking my head)
2007-09-06 12:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by ♥SLIM♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that you will leave her for not having sex with you, Becasue that happened to me when I was 15 my boyfriend pressured me to have sex and I wouldnt do it, I was afraid and should have been. Dont be so pushy with her, when its the right time it will happen and you will be in a better place in your relationship if you wait for her. (P.S I was a freshman when that happened to me, and I didnt talk to the guy again until graduation when he told me that "losing me was the biggest mistake of his life and he regrets it ever since. So take it from me, Your better off in a great relationship with out sex then many meaning less sexual incounters)
2007-09-06 12:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her stay a virgin, until you marry her, if you plan on one day marrying her. If you can't accept her being a virgin, and cant wait till possibly marrying her, then find someone else, and leave your girlfriend, if your that desperate.
2007-09-06 12:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you mean virgin in the physical sense, since obviously having sex with her voids the chastity purpose. So i suppose you are wondering if you can not break her hymen while having sex, well no.
2007-09-06 12:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Dub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you two can't get both ways, she can't be a virgin and you get to have sex with her in the traditional, vaginal intercourse way. some people would even say that she isn't a virgin if you have oral or anal sex with her. so i think you should respect her wish to be a virgin and wait until she wants to.
2007-09-06 12:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by smiley5671 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well no you can't have sex and still be a virgin but she prob want to be a virgin 4 many reason pain, not ready, or she a christian and believe to have sex when she's married
2007-09-06 12:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by MotherNature 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, there's no way out of it for you. But just accept it, and 2 out of 3 ain't bad, it'd be a heck of a batting average.
2007-09-06 14:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it might be time to start learning how to shake dice like you're going to throw them, and respect her wishes.
This might be a little unpopular , but you can join her in waiting.
If you can't wait it's time to move on.
Good luck with your decision, remember your decision impacts others.
2007-09-06 13:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by hugswin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋