do you try to to catch up or give up? or you just gonna sit there and feel small or search for more answers without asking why?
2007-09-06 12:00:52 · 15 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Don't\' know I'm a leader .if i really work for a goal, like anyone, it can be acompleshed.like getting pic up lol.Baby
2007-09-06 15:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by jeffclectic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Try and become involved with people by asking "What are you doing this weekend?" or "Would you like to go to the movies with me?"
2. If these people don't want to hang out, find other people to be friends with. The only way to make friends is by getting out and talking to people.
3. If you cannot, then make other plans; get yourself occupied with something else. You can try the relaxation method, which would be to take a long bath, and make it really really nice with bubbles and everything. Also try watching a happy TV show. You can try the "busy" approach,which is by occupying yourself with jobs, like baby sitting. It would truly get your mind off the thing you're excluded from.
4. Plan events for the future. Do not exclude your friends that didn't invite you, but just invite other people. It'll surprise them and show them that you have other friends, too.
5. Do what makes you happy. Try self indulging, like get your hair or nails done. Go shopping. Do something that will make you feel better about yourself.
Tips
* Remember, you don't want to be with the same people all the time. Meet new people and don't always be "in their face."
* If you can't figure out what's wrong, and if you need to change something, ask people who see you every day. Get multiple opinions. Have the people write down what they think, then compare lists. It's always a good idea to ask. Who knows? You might find someone who won't make you feel left out.
Warnings
* Decide why people won't hang out with you. Is there a reason? Something you can change?
* Don't think there is anything wrong with you because someone doesn't feel like seeing you. It doesn't mean they don't like you or are being cruel. If, however, they keep doing it talk to them.
2007-09-06 19:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah Kate Silverman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget catching up, and definately forget giving up. If you try to catch up, your just a follower. If you give up, you have failed. Test your true abilities, make your own path. Be a leader, not a follower, but always remember, be able to learn more each day, as a leader.
2007-09-06 19:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by RuRu 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I do something else then :)))
I am a leader and never a follower I will create a new path to follow that makes me feel good...................
In the end whether another person or s situation left me behind without a single thought that will be their LOSS in the end because that is just how life is.............................
2007-09-07 09:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by Rita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to be left behind you first had to be riding along. Stop being a passenger and start driving your own life.
2007-09-06 20:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by phil8656 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A look for another path to take because I find following the path of those who leave me behind is often not the right path for me.
2007-09-06 19:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by certifiedtarotmaster 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I leave people behind when the relationship is no longer profitable.
Blue I like blue are you blue ?
2007-09-06 22:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not get left behind on purpose, for me its a conscious decision
2007-09-06 19:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by bossman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you catch up and then get ahead.
because if you stay behind for one thing
you might start staying behind in all things
2007-09-06 19:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You ask them what they like to do and give them a shot at it.
2007-09-06 20:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by Cola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋