Walking out of Fetishes?

Question

Guys, I've lost my virginity today, but sex didn't really appealed to me.

I just got bored to it in 2 minutes and pretended I was penetrating a chopped-up underaged girl 'til orgasm. The woman (yes, a prostitute) noticed it and asked if I wasn't feeling horny. No.

I think it has to do with my masturbatory habits. I never ever masturbated a whole session to normal heterosexual intercourse (also, I'm at least mostly heterosexual). Like in my "sexperience", I just get bored with it in question of minutes and change to guro (fantasy + necrophilia) or exhibitionism.

According to a website, I have to change my masturbatory habits to be aroused to normal stuff, but how?

How do I masturbate to non-fetish stuff? I mean, it's all the same... penis in, penis out... Doesn't this gets you bored? Don't you "run out" of subject? In exhibitionism, for example, the girl and I can have lots of fear, anxiety, things can happen and I can "control" these to make an arousing story.

Please help :'(

Answer 1

The fact that you had to 'pretend' you were on a chopped up underaged girl makes it clear to me that you, son, need help. Youre seeing sex as a control issue and thats just wrong. Sex is to be an enjoyable experience for BOTH of the people, not just you. That makes you selfish as well...but that just adds another dimension to the control issues you face.
Sex with underaged children goes beyond fetishes and you know that. Its illegal and immoral.

Answer 2

Your looking at it all wrong, see sex isn't suppose to be a ego experience, its not suppose to be about control or pride. Thats just immature males sexuality that plagues TV and Pop Culture, your feeling the real pains of this because you have a sexual dysfunction, which basically means that you've made sex a completely emotionaless experience, and rather elected to get your.... self-worth, self-gratification, self-love thru domanice and control. NOT GOOD! See inorder to have a real, intense, sexual experience that would allow you to get past this you need to see the difference between MAKING LOVE and SCREWING, see sex is boring, your seeing that, the only thing that makes it worth a crap is when that hole your screwing is attached to something you FEEL INTENSELY FOR.... thats your fix buddy, I have ALMOST the same problem, I've controlled my...... drive, with my own self-gratification, thru that, I've found this to be true, becasue quite frankly buddy I can't SCREW, I just can't it doesn't arouse me for the same reason you speck, but I can make some LOVIN, oooo yea can I make love, but thats it, it cost me one-night stands and ever be able to use a hooker, but I have something most people can't I can make love.... shoot I have to;) think about that.... it is fundementallly screwing, but only for that peck, you know when your fixing to.... then its ALL animal, but everything lending up that, oooo so intense, its hard you can't have that type of relaitonship tonight, but its out there for you, if you work for it, you've forced yourself to. All doing that is going to do is make you more able to masterbate to other things, it won't fix the underlining problem, people don't want to amit this stuff because quite frankly most marriages are based on a guy masterbating in a women, funny stuff really.......

Answer 3

Dude. Before you can top, you need to bottom. Get yourself a domnitrix next time, and dress up like a little girl. And let her penetrate you. LOL. Then maybe you will develop a healthy sense off empathy while you are tied up and begging to get off. Except you're gagged, so you can't.

There is a whole fetish community with the Mantra "Safe, Sane and Consensual." Find that group before we see your *** on "America's Most Wanted" because your line between fantasy and reality became blurred.

Answer 4

you are a very very sick puppy! i advise some counseling or talking to a cop about it before you end up dead or in prison for the rest of your life. if sex is that bad for you.....stay away from sex!