only ones kind of nice to her. (We occasionally make bad jokes). We don't avoid her miserably like the others.Well last weekend Friend D and I felt bad for her so we decided to play basketball at the gym with her.This hated friend & I played a long game and she was shocked at how i played b/c she thought i was a girly girl who don't know how to play ball.The hated friend is not such a girly girl but rather the opposite.That night she stayed over at my dorm & slept on my roommie's bed. We had a long talk and she revealed to me about how she'd been depressed lately b/c of her loneliness.I felt kinda guilty but then we started to talk about gays and politics.In our discussion I expressed my apathy to the issue b/c after all <3 is <3. Then she asked me what i would do if one of my friends was gay? I responded by saying i wouldnt care. After that she told me she was grateful for having me and friend D as friends. Then she told me that she loved me & friend d. Ever since then she wants to
2007-09-06 11:32:40 · 5 answers · asked by Brown Nymph 07 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hang out with me and every time i dont pick up her calls she gets sad and every time i do pick up and we hang out she keeps all her attention on me which makes me uncomfortable. There is also those "attempted" touchy feely events like the brush of her finger on mine and shoulders. Could my friend possibly be gay and finally coming out? Or is she just really grateful for a friend? Am I total prick for acting the way I do? Can somebody please give me their honest input.
2007-09-06 11:37:17 · update #1
I am a straight chick and I know this has nothing to do with anything but my friend does dress androgynously. These are just some minor details about the situation. Don't need to take them into account if you don't want to.
2007-09-06 11:40:38 · update #2
It sounds like she's just lonely and she's trying to hang onto like her only friend/s. If it makes you feel uncomfortable, let her know so she's not always hanging with you. Maybe help her find some new friends.
2007-09-07 16:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by caricature 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look this is prolly very akward and sometimes i feel like im the 'mean friend' in situations like this. if you dont like her like you think she may like you, then tell her that. dont let her get hurt later cause you dont like her. these feelings may only grow. and as for you and Friend D being nice to her, thats fantastic. you never know whats going on in a persons life and you might be exactly what they need. i cannot stress that enough to anyone. the loners do need friends. theres always a reason they dont have friends. but if you do feel a little attraction, try it. if shes struggling to come out, that would be like the best thing in the whole world. i know it would to me...
2007-09-06 18:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by BooYa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if she is gay, so what!! you can still be a good friend even though you are straight. just let her know exactly that. also you may want to breech the subject of her loneliness, and maybe help her out in this area, she may be totally unaware of what is causing people to avoid her. once you have schooled her up on this fact, it is up to her to make the changes made.
2007-09-14 17:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her indirectly you like men. You can do that simply by saying how attractive a man you ran into is. You might give her some idea what you like about the guy. That should do it, no?
2007-09-14 17:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow well you should just tell her, "I AM NOT INTRESTED IN YOU" kthnx.
2007-09-06 18:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋