I'm not lazy but I do expect the women in my life to be submissive and domestic. Is this fair? I pay bills.

Answer 1

I sometimes I Eat Grass when my tummy hurts

Answer 2

You say you pay the bills, but if a bill for domestic labor was fairly submitted, do you think you could afford to have a women in your life? A good cook is $30/ hour, maid- laundry minimum/ $10. Sex on demand-$200/ hour even if not good.

Shoot, if you get sex twice a week, and meals every night, you are probably broke , without adding in the wash or walking the dog. Baby boy, She owns you, and that's fair.
Grow up

Answer 3

It is only fair if she is willing to be submissive towards you...

Honestly, being a female person myself, I am submissive towards my lover not because he wants to, but I want to... I did it out of LOVE...

You may be the one who pays the bills, but remember that the woman has her roles too, it's irrational to say that you deserve to have women being submissive to you just because you pay bills...
The woman can say the same too for taking care of the household and children... ^_^

Answer 4

It depends on your attitude. From a biblical perspective women should submit to thier men but, the men should so everything with the best intentions for the wife so that it is a balance. Whether you choose that path or not, there does have to be a balance otherwise it is a dictatorship and she won't stick around long.

Answer 5

I pay my own bills, take care of all my own housework, participate in many volunteer activities, work outside the home, take care of my own repairs (whether by doing them myself or making a point of hiring the best professional), take care of all the secretarial work for my local Lion's Club, and regularly participate in a local bar's karaoke night, among the many things I do. I balance my home, social, volunteer and work lives. Quite frankly, I could use a break from doing it all.

Answer 6

If you pay the bills and your wife doesn't earn one cent, then yes, it's fair for her to be domestic. But, domestic and submissive aren't the same, you know?

Answer 7

They are actually supposed to be...God designed it that way, only the world has just confused things. Everyone is saying in one way or another that "now is different from then" or "women don't need to be ordered around by a man" but that is the way God intended it to be, and marriages don't work with two leaders colliding in opinions. The wife is supposed to submit under the husband's authority, but the husband is supposed to love and care for his wife as well. Any other way causes friction and conflict...but I could go on and on. Yaya for the humble women!!! :)

Answer 8

if ur gunna pay all the bills and give me some money to spend for myself and a car to drive i sure will stay home all day to cook and clean ill even have dinner ready on the table for u when u get home from work now do u like that?

Answer 9

As longa s u are the breadwinner and she has no outside job yes...dinner should be on the table when you walk in the door not a minute later..and ur clothes for bed layed out and in the morn your clothes for work layed out breakfast (not ceral or pop tarts) should be on the table.

Answer 10

honey you pay the bills and i'll have the house nice and clean for you, have a warm meal fixed for you and even show you some love if you don't talk down to me

Answer 11

Mmm - what you expect young man is not always what you get.

I expect the woman in my life to hang upside down from the ceiling and eat bugs - but ....