I have a decision to make about school. I really need your help.?

Question

Okay, I have refused to go to school for a little while, because of the people there who bullied me.
I had a meeting with my head of year tonight, with my mum, and I have 2 options -
I can choose to go to a new school. But the one I want to go to is full, and I would need to appeal, which means I'll be out of school for at least a month, and there is no gurantee they'll accept me, it depends how sympaphetic they are.
I can have a fresh start, meet new people, not f*ck like I did in my present school.

Or, I can be slowly rehabilitated into school. As in, I can do half days, or just a couple of lessons. Then eventually whole days.
They'll arrange places where I can go with my few friends, and no one else.
I'll have the chance to move teaching groups.
but that won't stop people hating me.


I have no idea what to do. I have untill tomorrow to decide.
Please, give me your opinions.

*Fck up, I didn't mean didn't mean fcking, as in being a wh*re. I meant screwing up, and yeah, first dragon, you are right, i did create it, I can't put it right, people across the school hate me for it.

I've recieved IMs from 2 people begging me to stay...but, they are the 2 people I hang out with...
It's made me feel worse for my decision, but I have made it at last.

I will change schools, but, I want to look around the 2 schools I am considering first.
I will go in for 2 lessons and lunch tomorrow, to say good bye, because that could be the last time I get a chance to go to my school, it'll also be the time I use to make sure I really want to leave.

And, if they let me, I want to go in to my present school for a little each week untill I can move officially, so that I can keep up, at least a little.

Answer 1

It sounds to me like you had some role in creating the bad feelings that cause people to hate you; so it may be better for you to learn to recover from the situation right where you are. I imagine that if the bullies had all the fault, action would be taken against them to keep them off you. In fact, that should happen anyway, I think.
It sounds like you are motivated and smart enough to deal with this, but it won't be easy. If they offer you the help and support you need, that's good.
Even if you change schools, you will have to deal with people. Good and bad people are everywhere. But if you think the situation in your current school is too much for you to handle, maybe it would be worthwhile to change.
Well, I can't answer your question, you'll have to use your own judgment, but I hope this helps.

Answer 2

Go for the new school, it can mean a fresh start, and if you start out confidently, people will notice!! You'll make a clean impression and it's a great opportunity to make smart choices and get better friends to hang with! :) Good luck, I have faith in you and your descision

Love Junko <33

Answer 3

Try for the new school. It's a new opportunity and being out of school for a month isn't the worst thing in the world. See if your district has online classes you can take in the meantime or if you can study at home using district approved curriculum.

If you don't get in, then go back to the other school but I would try for the new school first.

Good luck!

Answer 4

If possible, I would continue going to your current school, with the new guidelines they are going to help set up and still appeal to get into the other school. That way, if you can't get in right away, you won't be too far behind.
I am very sorry you are having these problems.
I hope everything turns out for you.

Answer 5

new school. you will have what everyone wants...a fresh start