how do I check my tone?

Question

Add some people will say stuff like your tone is unpleasent.
it hurts because i do not see me being rude to anyone minus a day here and there do to lack of control but I normal come of nice so i thought
but i had a few people approach me saying i have a rude undertone. If i don't see this and they don't give me an example how can i fix it?
so mainly how do i doulbe check my tone when i think about it i think i come of sounding condesending and i dont want that either!
how can i balance this out!

WTF are you talking about first answer did you not read the question??? lol funny how the digital age has corpeted most minds!
lol
but thanks for trying!

Answer 1

I would ask the person's help. Say something like, "I really don't mean to sound unpleasant, can you tell me exactly what I do that sounds bad?" If this doesn't help figure this out, ask a friend who might be able to help. It's probably just some habit you aren't aware of. Or, if only one person has said this, maybe he's the only one who feels this way.
Another idea, if you can talk to anybody who is an actor or acting coach (like at a school or college or community theater), they might be able to help you. Since they study how to simulate or "act" different emotions and tones, they likely could tell you what it is about your speech that gives the bad impression.

Answer 2

right click on the "my body" icon and on the drop down menu click on properties. on the settings tab click the "sounds & audio devices" button and scroll down to tone.