Im 20 years old, i sneaked into a teen dance club with my high school friends on labor day weekend.
My thing is, I met a 14 year old girl who wanted to dance with me and I thought she looked cute. We danced and held hands while in the club. She wanted to kiss me and I gave her a kiss and made out. I said to her that i am 17 years old. And she believed me (possibly becuase I kinda look like a high school student). We exchanged phone numbers and she started calling my cell phone. She wants to hang out becuase her parents are not home yet.
What should I do??
2007-09-06 08:16:43 · 47 answers · asked by Alan A 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
your gonna have to block her or tell her your 20 and that there will be no relation ship cause you can get in trouble for it.
2007-09-06 08:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
You knew she was only 14 and still made out with her?? That is so wrong and more than taking advantage of the fact that she is 14. Grow up and quit messing with little girls. Why would a 20 yr old want to sneak into a teen dance club other than to pray on young girls.
Tell her you are 20 and delete her number and start dating girls your own age.
2007-09-06 08:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Coffee 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You should do what you should have done in the first place and tell her the truth.
You as a 20 year old young man have not business going to a high school dance and dancing, or anything else, with a 14 year old girl anyways. Grow up and date girls your own age.
2007-09-06 08:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kali's Mom 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You know it's wrong and you know you can get in trouble for it. That is why you asked this question, so people will talk you out of it. First of all, shame on you for decieving a young girl and then to flirt with her like this. It's your own fault that she keeps calling you. I would end this now. Tell her its wrong and you can not do this, and then tell her to stop calling you. You are old enough to make an adult decision. You and I are the same age, and I would know what to do in this sort of situation. In fact, I wouldn't have let it happen in the first place.
2007-09-06 14:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by thathockeychick23 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Gross. Why were you in a teen club in the first place? Get with people your own age, loser. I don't care if this was 6 years ago. You're probably 26 now and still hitting on 15-year-olds.
2013-12-21 04:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by mooki3babiiyonkerz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know what you should do, you're just prolonging it. You know it's not right, or you wouldn't have asked the question. It's on your mind and you can't let it go. Be the considerate young man that you should be, and let the poor girl go. Not only is it wrong to have lied to her, but now you have set yourself up for some major legal issues if you should go to her house. Use the brain God gave you, and use it sensibly. Good luck.
2007-09-12 03:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT hang out with her or keep accepting her phone calls. If her parents found out, it could mean serious trouble for you.
If you are afraid of hurting her feelings, the easiest thing to do would be to tell her that you're 20. She'll probably be really freaked out by how old you are. If that doesn't work, just don't answer her calls. She'll get over it.
2007-09-06 08:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by sosogirl88 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You better cut it off right now. Because if her parents find out you did something with an underaged girl, or if she gets mad at you and tells her parents u would be in BIG trouble. Trust me this happened to one of my uncles and he did eight years in prison!!! So u still got time. oh and dont ever sneak into teen clubs again! ur a grown man already.
2007-09-06 08:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You should tell the truth. If you're 20 years old dating a 14 year old, it kinda makes you look like a pedo. The both of you need to find someone your own age, call her and tell her that. And you should appologize for lying...
2007-09-06 08:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by The Don 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Have you lost your mind. What would possess you to even think about kissing a 14 year old? Obviously you don't understand the concept of right from wrong. A 14 year old is still growing and learning and you are disgusting for even thinking about taking away her youth! This can only lead to bad things! My advice, get counseling for yourself!
2007-09-06 08:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jamie 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
20 and 14!! You could get in trouble for that. Tell her the truth. Why did you lead her on anyways? A grown man well kinda should know whats wrong and right. . . . .
2007-09-06 08:34:13 · answer #11 · answered by Sarah 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋