Why????????

Question

Why do i see the things that i see?

when my uncle got better...i saw him die the next day, and he did, why did i see this before it happened?

when i was 13....i saw that my grandad would die when i was 18, and now i'm 18, when my grandad was taken into hospital, i saw that it wouldn't be long, and it wasn't...i'm 18 and he died, why did i see this before it happened?

the next people i see dying, are my parents......and then me....

i don't want to see this....but why do i see it and why does it come true?

am i a freak??

it's just it makes me think like my life is just some cheap Charmed/Heroes, etc. plot.

but i did just remember an incident i saw happening that didn't happen......by mathematic law, someone was supposed to die on the 19th February this year and it didn't happen (thankfully).

i'm just so confused about it.

Answer 1

There are no rules about when to talk about dying – no checklist or seven point plan. It's a very individual and highly personal thing. Some people start to talk about it when it becomes clear that their illness can't be cured, even though it will be many months before they die. Others prefer to wait.

When doctors use the term 'dying' they usually mean that someone has up to a few weeks to live. Telling someone they are going to die is never easy and some relatives ask that the dying person isn't told. But Dr Sturgeon explains that this imposes a barrier of secrecy between the dying person and their loved ones:

'The vast majority of people who are dying know that they're dying, and keeping it a secret means that a time that should be close and intimate between the dying and their loved ones becomes a time of relative isolation and loneliness.'

By failing to talk, each side may think they are protecting the other when, in reality, they are simply becoming isolated from each other. When there is such a large and important 'no-go' area for conversation, it can be hard to think of anything to say which doesn't threaten the secret.

If someone makes it clear that they do not want to know, their doctor or nurse should not force information on them, but Dr Sturgeon explains that there is often an underlying anxiety in such cases which it may be possible to sort out.
The only way to deal with grief is to face it head on and work through it and come out on the other side. The grief work is hard and we usually can't do it alone. But it is ultimately less painful than avoiding it. We will not forget the person we love. We are not talking about getting over grief. We are talking about working through the grief. On the other side is growth.

What does it mean to grow through grief?
1. It means developing a new appreciation and respect for life and the people who are apart of it.
2. It means no longer taking things or people for granted.
3. It means growth; growth allows us to become aware of our mutual need for each other.
4. And it opens us to the spiritual or sacred dimensions of life.

Sometimes you will feel worse before you feel better. It is safe to say that the first year after a major loss will be� shall I say, awful? But you can come to the end of that first year and recognize that it had some purpose and direction. You survived, and that is a significant accomplishment. You may also be able to look back on new relationships established from helping each other.
The second year is often called the lonely year. You made it through the first year and you may think things should return to normal. But, in actuality, this is the year that you realize how lonely it can be without that person you loved. Or if it is an illness, then this is the year you come to grips with all the things you can no longer do. Once the second year brush with reality is past, you will be ready to start getting on with reorganizing your life. This doesn't mean there is no more grieving. However, you will find that you have more good days than before.
By the end of the third year, you may again have what seems like a setback. But this is actually a safe time to finish work that you couldn't do before. When this is done, the pain of your loss should be decreased to a point where it finally seems manageable.
Where will you be at year four? If you have worked through the grief, you will find that growth has occurred. A sense of confidence and strength will be there. You have endured the worst and lived through it and grown. You are a different person and perhaps even a better person than when you started. Many will find themselves reaching out to others to help them. All, who allow themselves to, will find compassion for themselves and others.
When times get rough through this process, you might repeat this affirmation: (Affirmations are positive statements that affirm for us what we hope to accomplish.)
As I go through this grief, I will also grow through the experience and I will walk in sunshine again.

Answer 2

Yo depressed @ss person! i'm somewhat happy for you... and that i'mma enable you end... yet there is something called a well being club. You pay slightly money. You run on the treadmill, play some activities, gets out some endorphins, and you drop extra pounds and be slightly greater happy. stop dropping time asking why, because of the fact there is the two no answer or you do not decide for to appreciate and your strategies probable is bored with you asking it.

Answer 3

I submit that you probably have premonitions and dreams of a myriad of future events and sometimes a few of them do come true.

But, the reason is the laws of chance rather than any metaphysical powers.

Answer 4

their death was a co-incidence. stop thinking that you have some great powers and that everything you see has to be true.

i had many such incidents in my life when i dreamt about something only to find it happen exactly the same way the next day. but i also had several wrong dreams.

just chill, you r fine

Answer 5

Intuition is the ability to pick up on all types of clues, detect a pattern, and form an idea of where that pattern is going. You are a very intuitive girl.

Answer 6

Often, you pick up on cues unconsciously. You are perceptive and aware of things that others don't see. You process all of that and you make it conscious. You use probability.
You can ask that your intuition, premonition and discernment be taken from you, in prayer. Someday, you may be glad to have it back. C. :)!!

Answer 7

well, that's pretty cool if you ask me but unfortunately your premonitions are, well... morbid. since i have not encountered that experience yet, all i can think of saying is to warn all the people you saw dying. if you can't stop it, at least tell them, so that they would live a fuller life. but if you can stop it, please do. you don't want any more deaths around.

Answer 8

2 words deja vu

Answer 9

i feel that sometimes god gives us signs and messages to show us whats to come. i think that you need to pray to him and let him know about how you feel about these things you are seeing, ask for guidance and strength, he will get you through it. god bless!