What is the saddest thing that as ever happened to you!! And how did you get through it?

Answer 1

my ex. he left me pregnant with triplets

it completely broke me as a person, i was a wreck, tried suicide and everything

i was a complete wreck .

my mates basically stripped me down as a person and rebuilt me , im better now.

thank god, its a place i dont even ever wanna go back to ,

the only good thing he left me with was my pregnancy, im 17 weeks with triplets and i cant wait. im going to love these babies to bits and he can go to hell.

Answer 2

My saddest moment was when the police came knocking on the door to say my brother had been killed on his motorbike,it was a Friday morning and he was going on a trip to Blackpool.He said to my mum if it doesn't stop raining i will catch the bus up to the place where the coach was leaving from.It stopped raining so he went on his bike and has he put on his brakes he skidded on the wet road and went under a articulated lorry.I went to the mortuary to see him in the afternoon,i will never get it out of my head.I still get down some days about it.Christmas is always a hard time for me knowing all i can buy for him is a wreath.x

Answer 3

My Mum being murdered when I was 16, then both her parents dying within a few months of that. Not sure how I got through it, I had to stay strong for my father and brother, I went onto auto pilot. The court case was horrific though and I did go to pieces after that I'm afraid, it took me years to get back on track. I had to give myself a good kick up the ar se and get on with life, I realised that people had been through far worse and nothing would bring my loved ones back.

On the bright side, I had about 14 years that I would just like to forget and now I'm happily married with my first baby due next month!! Our experiences make us into better people.

Answer 4

I am 24 and last summer I had a very tragic experience but because of that experience I can not have children well at least not my own. Since I was a kid I have wanted to grow up and have 3 or 4 kids when I was married. It was heart wrenching trying to call my family and tell them the news and worse yet telling my boyfriend that if he was with me, because we have been talking about marriage for awhile, that we would not be able to have children together. He really helped me through it and stayed by my side telling me that it will be okay and that he still loved me very much and wanted to be with me. Sometimes it is still hard when I see a pregnant woman or moms and babystrollers. But there is always adoption.

Answer 5

My hubby died tragically and suddenly 5yrs ago,I had to stay strong for my sons whom where 6 & 10,their love helped me through even in their own grief they asked me how I was which most of the adults in the family didnt,my son,s and I have got each other through this,there was a fatal accident inquiry,then taking the police to court for negligence,it took 3yrs after his death toget closure,Im a very strong person my kids have kept me going and I am helping them cope and deal with their grief still.It was like I was on a mission I had so much to do and sort out legally its only now that Im putting it behind me Ive accepted he is dead but still cant accept how he died such a waste of life,i was recovering from a nervous breakdown when he died it was a long way back from that but Im holding down 2 jobs raising my sons and just geting on with life,their dad would be really proud how they are becoming young well mannered,kind,considerate men...Thanks for asking this Q...........

Answer 6

my saddest time is when i lost my girlfriend carrying my child to a rare illness, which death just took them both away. no explanation whatsoever.completely out of the blue.i was devastated almost out of my mind,many years i roam this life totally lost, even thought of suicide.i still feel great sorrow now and always will do to my last dying day.i have now received another blow which is very bad, but does not compeat with the earlier sorrow.my recent girlfriend ran away with my best so call friend. so it seems i am doomed with love.

Answer 7

Loosing my dad. He was the encouraging person in my life. He was so proud of me. He could say more with his eye's than most could ever speak. Time only heals, nothing else. But his spirit lives on through me.

Answer 8

My Dad passes away three weeks before my wedding.
Time was the only thing to help get through it.

Answer 9

Having to see my mother in the chapel of rest family brought me through it at worst she was only 58

Answer 10

i can happily say nothing really bad has ever happened to me, sure i've had some minor illnesses and my mum had cancer but she recovered so i can't really see the bad because she recovered and is now fine.

I am one of the lucky ones i suppose, no one i know has ever died, lets hope it stays like that for a long time

Answer 11

when my gran died because she raised me from birth and treated me like her own daughter, she died at the ripe old age of 89 and she raised me well, she was strict but she also taught me alot when i was growing up.....i will always miss her, it took me a while to come to terms with her death because she gave me her house in her will and everything about the house reminds me of her, i have re decorated it now because it was old inside, but i have kept her room like it was before she died, i use it as the guest room now and no one seems to mind sleeping in there, while i was re decorationg the house i kept finding little things that belonged to her so i have bought an old display cabinet and put these items in there....i had to move on because i have children and they kept me going while i was grieving.....it still feels like she's here at times watching over us, so that is a comfort...she's been dead for 6 years now but her memory will go on....