I'm 23 and I've lost two pregnancies both at 5 weeks.
Have anyone gone through the exact same thing and had a kid later on? What did the doctor tell you??? Was your man the problem???
I have been told two times that everything is excellent. So why is it happening.
Stories please:
I wanted to know that if you conceive with a guy and then married another guy, did you finally carry full term???
2007-09-06 05:02:40 · 9 answers · asked by Mom2aGirlandaBoy 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
But I want to know answers. Come on I'm with the same man and I have miscarry twice. What if the problems is him???
I Want to know weeks when you miscarry, If it happen the same!!!!
2007-09-06 05:02:49 · update #1
Im sorry for your loss.
I miscarried at 12 weeks...or thats when we discovered the baby had died. I probably lost it around 10 weeks.
MOST miscarriages in the first trimester are due to genetic accidents in formation. They can be caused by hereditary cases (something in your/husbands genes) or something that just happens...no ryhme or reason to it.
Try not to dwell on the reasons why it happened. Know that you couldnt have done anything to prevent it from happening.
Give yourself 3-4 cycles of your period before you try again. Start taking folic acids (helps with genetic problems).
Stop smoking, drinking or any drugs that arent necessary.
I doubt its your mans fault or your fault...it is just something that happens.
Most doctors dont even bother with testing until the 3rd miscarriage. Horrible, I know, but if it happens again (heaven forbid) have them test the pregnancy tissue for any genetic problems.
Take your time in healing and recover...then try again.
I have a healthy 15 month old son after my miscarriage and I'm pregnant again with my 2nd child. I'm also 38 years old...so I have more danger in having genetic issues than you do at your young age.
Good luck!
2007-09-06 05:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by GayLF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a preterm delivery, which they considered to be a miscarriage because i was only at 23 weeks and they said my water had broken. i honestly think the doctors made a mistake but that's another story. i am currently married now and 36 weeks pregnant. i have had some complications but it looks like i will have a healthy baby boy anyday now. im not sure if my story will help u tho since u've miscarried so early but it is possible that soon enough u will carry til the end. don't give up. and if ur doctors aren't helpful try another. the doctors this time are well extremely helpful compared to the ones i dealt with before. best wishes to u.
2007-09-06 05:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a problem with your hubby, as his "job" is completed once you are pregnant.
Sometimes it is just not ment to be. I have miscarried 3 times in my life. Once before my oldest daughter and twice before my youngest daughter.
There was nothing wrong with me, those babies just were not meant to happen.
All miscarriages were pregnancies from my husband.
We have two beautiful daughters. You must think positive. When you discover you are pregnant. Your nerves need to be calm and your thoughts need to be happy ones. Fear and Stress can stress out the baby and too much can be..bad.
Dont lose hope.
2007-09-06 05:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by KUJayhawksfan* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had 5 mis-carriages but they were all caused by stress trying to conceive was very stressfull for me because i kept losing my baby each time i was thinking somewhere around where you are thinking like could there be something wrong with me? or my husband or maybe im baren plus the actualy feelings and small pains we get durning and after mis-carriage cause a lot of stress on my body as well plus the actual act of trying to conceive like if your trying to get on that whole schedual thing timing everything thats what i did and i think even that could of added some stress onto me as well but once we decided to stop trying and relax about it im not even sure how it happened it just did im at 2 months now (but im still not in the clear yet) and very happy thats its happened but maybe this could be your problem as well but i would check in with a specialist just to make sure i would just trust your instinct on this well much love going your way hope this helps --- tiffany
2007-09-06 07:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by damned_ugly4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time it happen my doc in the us say to me & my husband Oh it is normal every women miscarried once in a lifetime, so we listen to what he said
but once I arrive home (France) and visit a doc she said no we will run some test and since I travel back and forth to the US aND i know a very good doc in the US she send him a letter (thank God he is Haitian & speak FRENCH) with that they boh follow me run tests to make sure my second misc
the doc decide to see if it was not soemthing to do with my tubes and also my husband was check
and yes I did have cyts & fibroyds and I did have an operation to remove them and also was put on Lupron for the fribroyds
my thirds test was run on my husband only to see if it was not a chromosone issue with him (my husband had been asking for test since the first time) and also they check his sperm counts
since nothing was wrong I was giving a low dose of progesteron and my husband vitamin to help with his sperms
Now I am pregnant 5 months
waiting for a little girl
their might not be anything wrong with either of you but not knowing make it hard so try to relax and stay healthy have your guy take vitamin with zinc and try again
Good luck
2007-09-06 05:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, let me say that you need to check and see if maybe you have PCOS (poly-cystic ovarian syndrome). I went through the same thing - lost pregnancies. Had nothing to do with "my man". I was also told by 2 doctors that everything was excellent. Someone told me to check into the PCOS and boom, that was it.
Conceiving with one and marrying another has nothing to do with carrying to full term. . . that's simply genes my dear.
Check into the PCOS - they do make wonderful drugs for that that will help you carry to term!!
Good Luck and God Bless
2007-09-06 05:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by monntty1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there may be an underlying issue that a regular OBGYN may not be able to detect for you. See if you can get a referral to a reproductive endocrinologist, they specialize in women who have had multiple unexplained miscarriages. There may be a genetic factor or a blood clotting issue. Good luck!
2007-09-06 05:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by parental unit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off .. if your getting pregnant the problem isnt your man! your the one that cant carry the child.. you need to talk to your doctor and see if there is a medical reason.. or a physical reason.. turned uterus is a big one.. after 2 miscarriages.. that would be my clue to get it checked.. get a different doctors opinion.. after that.. are you overly physical? smoke, drink, normally .. not while pregnant
it could be that your so worried and stressed that it upsets your body and rejects the pregnancy...
before you go blaming the man that is getting you pregnant.. start getting the details on your body!
2007-09-06 05:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by jeselynn_81 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
well i miscarried with my second husband and after that we were no longer together but with my third husband i had a stillborn and they said it was me on the stillborn but on the miscarriage it was my second husband sperm but with my third husband we have a beautiful almost 4 month old daughter
2007-09-06 05:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋