how long did it take after the demise of your relationship before you were ready for another serious relationship?
2007-09-06 03:14:28 · 29 answers · asked by Beth 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
to be honest i was over him before i left him. but i waited a year, and then i was still comparing guys to him. basically if they had a single trait like him it was adios. finally i met someone i completely trust. time is different for all of us. even though i was over him- i wasnt over all of the bs he put me through and im still partially scared to open up completely and i have been with this new guy for almost a year now.
2007-09-06 03:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had a four year relationship and we slpit when I hit 21 I took a four year break and am ready for a relationship heck even marriage I have a steady job working from home and you know there are plenty of fish in the sea for a good looking 25 year old. I've always been fearful of making the commitment of having kids and getting married. But not any more. Isn't that great and I'm still young enough to have fun I love it see ya.
2007-09-06 23:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard for me to answer that. I got into a relationship a few months after my girlfriend and I broke up (We dated for almost three years). But I wasn't ready for it. I needed the companionship, sure...but she was still on my mind.
It's been over a year since we broke up now. I'm still in the relationship I got into a few months later. But I still think about her a lot. And it's not fair to the girl I'm with now. My ex is slowly drifting out of my mind, but it's taking a long time.
I know some people who have gotten over a long-term ex after a few months. Sometimes it takes a year or two. Sometimes...well...sometimes it takes much longer. It depends on how close you were.
2007-09-06 03:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan H. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
A 3 1/2 year relationship with my ex-fiancee.
Split up about 7 weeks ago, it hurt but had to be done, it took a couple of weeks to come to terms with being single again but I then realised it was the best thing I could have done for myself.
As for another relationship - as soon as I meet the right woman I'll be ready.
2007-09-06 03:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by Weatherman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorced. 2 1/2 years ago. Im just getting into dating again. Kinda looking for something serious but now Im more cautious about it. Im (depending on how you look at it) fortunate that I have no children so Im free to do anything anytime.
It took so long because I lost trust. Trust in women and uncertainty in myself. I have had few relationships in my life because I take a lot of time between them.
2007-09-06 13:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by bummer101467 <2HeartKnight> 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Years the first time, I was really hurt and did not want to let anyone close to me. The second time it was easier because I got together with the woman I should have married from the beginning. Everyone is different, you will know what is right for you. Don't let anyone try and push you back on to the playing field if your not ready.
2007-09-06 03:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by kba1a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a 24 year marriage and divorce,,,,,,trust was a big issue in NEVER wanting another long-term anything.
2007-09-06 03:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by missellie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the heart wants what the heart wants. can't put a time frame on that. i've found someone while i was with the other and was over the first before the relationship was over. on the other hand, i've had others that i tried to date to get over and it took as much as 2 years before i could commit to anything. can't stop the heart from wanting what it wants.
2007-09-06 05:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No time at all but I was the one that wanted out of the relationship.
2007-09-06 03:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was so shook after the divorce it took me years....I so remembered the pain I stayed in this relationship just so I would not feel it again...I will let you know if I ever get over this one.
2007-09-06 03:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by Madam Naka 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋