im native american indian and french. im 30...im aging but, i have deep blue saphire eyes, brown tanned skin, im balding with dark brown hair...even though i recentley trimmed it all off.
anyway i'm really hung up on my appearance because i feel i look a white aging man and my appearance doesnt reflect what i really am....i dont like the way i look sometimes....because i feel my appearence sets me apart from my culture and makes me look like aging white man...
im really depressed over this.
can anyone advise?
2007-09-06 03:13:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
i am having a difficult time once again with the same thing, but different in that i look like a silly girl, cute and sexy but not too smart; however, i am very intelligent (though i am an underachiever) and i long to have people accept what i know instead of dismissing my words because of how i look... it has also caused me a lot of trouble with people using my desire to be accepted as a way to try to get physical attention from me. i am 41 now and even if i don't look that old, i know as much as anyone the same age and i hope that i don't have to be 60 before i am given the validity of wisdom .
i know this isn't so much an answer as it is an empathetic reply, but i feel ya' bro. just know that i can't see your image but i know your heart and spirit and i want the best for you. things are going to happen in the next few years that will change you forever- some good sme bad but all part of the human experience so just go with it and try to love your life
peace love and empathy
2007-09-06 04:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I used to work with a girl who is 1/2 Lebanese and 1/2 Caucasian. She had the most beautiful deep sapphire blue eyes. Most people of her decent have brown eyes.
That bugged her too, but she later really embraced her eye color. She had real shiny long black hair and her skin color was very much lighter than her Lebanese relatives.
She said it didn't bother her that her coloring was different because SHE knew who she was and what her ancestry is, and was always happy to tell people about it.
You have obviously embraced your ancestry and your heritage; YOU know where you come from and are proud of it. Allow that to be enough. Once you have done that, the aging will not seem so significant any longer... some things may diminish then too.
Another thing to remember is that as men age, they look much more "distinguished" and "debonair".
Don't focus so much on how you look. Focus on what shines from within, that is the first thing people truly see.
2007-09-06 04:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Totem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its all part of the aging process, if you really are freaked out about it, get plastic surgery and change whatever you want done.
More than likely though you just aren't happy with your life and are focusing on your looks to avoid some real issues. Why not try some therapy for a bit and see how that changes your outlook.
good luck and be happy.
2007-09-06 03:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last time I looked the French were white. My dad when he worked in the sun would turn almost black but remove his shirt and he was the whitest man you can find. What is on the outside has nothing to do with who you are. You make of life what you want or you don't.
2007-09-06 05:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, it sounds great to me. It is very rare to see someone with brown skin and such blue eyes but it sounds like a beautiful combination. And every aging white man looks different like anyone else. There really is no advice to give you.
2007-09-06 03:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by moon_walker 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would have to say you have such pretty eye color. Why are you so stuck on that thing? I would love to have that eye color.
2007-09-06 05:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i been going through that since i was 17... now im 18 imagin going through that when ur so young... atlest you had a better teen life...
2007-09-06 03:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by :O 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Join the "Club"...
Welcome to the REAL world!!!
2007-09-06 03:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋