Help! Im having erection problems...?

Question

I am in my 20's and have been with my girlfriend for 3 months. She is unbelievably sexy, and we do have a very passionate sex life. The only problem is, we havent had sex! We do everything else, and we both come plenty, it's just that I cant maintain an erection to penetrate her. I was on anti-depressants up until a couple of months ago, and Im generally feeling fine now. I work out and keep pretty fit, but I just dont know what to do. I can get hard: just not very effectively. HELP!

Answer 1

erection problem means anxiety
u had past nice sexual experience
just relax and dont take any medicine
have confidence in yourself
try to stimulate yourself ask ur girl friend t o help
it will work
if u fail just dont feel shame
it will be ok
u r normal guy and u will get ok just believe in yourself
and both help each other
ok

Answer 2

Do you drink or smoke? Alcohol can have a big effect on erections. Do you have a lot of stress in your life (besides this lol)? That could effect it as well.

First, I'd try taking a deep breath and try not thinking about it. Sometimes you get so worked up and you get it in your mind that this thing is going to happen but you really hope it doesn't........ and then it does.

If that fails (which it probably will cause I'm just giving advice lol), I'd go see your doctor. I know it may feel embarrassing but I'm sure it's not the first time they've had this problem or worse. Just keep telling yourself that, they've heard/seen worse. They've heard seen worse.

The anti-depressants very well could've done this, they warn about it all the time. Maybe you just need more time to get it all out of your system? Either way, I'd go see my doctor, it could be more to it.

Answer 3

If you are not incapable then you are NOT having erection problems. I am sure you can manage to masturbate too, which is healthy and normal. It is just plain simple anxiety about how your performance will be the first time. Let me tell you, don't worry, the first time is quick and a bit sh*t for everyone (whatever they might tell you!). Being good at sex takes experience and practice. Next time you feel in the moment do some genital and body wide carrassing (kissing necks, rubbing hands smoothly over each other dressed and undressed). Get your partner to "feel you up" as in grabbing, squeezing and rubbing your penis while you are still dressed (do the same to her/him and to their sensitive areas), believe me if you are both doing this while passionately snogging you won't have a problem for long as passion kills anxiety!. Some more tips for healthy erections, don't drink alcohol before hand and if you smoke, stop it! Also, whatever your sexuality remember it's healthy either way whatever some people might say and for goodnees sake use a rubber! You don't need to get a baby or a nasty disease after your first experience. Learn how to put rubbers on when you are alone to cut down on nervous fumbling or, better still, ask your partner to put it on for you, it can feel wonderful! One more thing, getting random, regular erections is perfectly normal too, just a bit awkward sometimes!

Answer 4

This is a common problem after taking a course of anti depressants. Go back to the doctor that prescribed them for you. Also in the meantime you could do a google search on
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Answer 5

My best advice is go to the Doctor. Not that there are any red flags or anything, it just seems suspicious that you can't have an erection even though you have done things to correct it. Don't be embarrassed, this happens to lots of ppl and the best thing you can do is make a doc's appointment.

Answer 6

Depressants ,Librium etc affect sexual performance.Another may be low testetrone.Get it checked up.At 20 you should not have erection problems.
If there is nothing wrong try this herbal tablets 1 a day for 4 weeks(along with milk).
Aswajith(Aryavaidya Pharmacy,Coimbatore,India).Consult your doctor even before taking herbal medicine.It is at your risk.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

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Answer 9

Get some proffesional help form a doctor & in the meantime just keep on trying!

Answer 10

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