4 months ago, i was being pursued by this aries guy... he seemed like the perfect guy and what made it better is that he was pursuing me like i'm the only woman in the universe.....
But then came the bomb >>> i found out that he is MARRIED....
keeping in mind that he's an ARIES what was he doing??? "i've always heard that aries are faithful in relationships!!"
2007-09-06 00:51:31 · 10 answers · asked by Robin J 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I am an aries - but recently started a book about love relationship (horoscopes signs related). It is how to find someone to love and keep them - but in your situation he is married. That automatically makes him a pig! I have endured the same bomb as you - he is married! Then you ask "what in the world are you doing pursuing me?" Then you ask "What is wrong in his marriage?" Then you ask "Maybe I can be the one and make the marriage dissolve and show this man love?" Get all these questions out of your head and realize that if not you, then he will seek another woman - a woman who will wait on him to come to her when HE has time to play away from playing house. An Aries man is a dashing fellow who often has his pick of women, he will go after women who stand out in a crowd (obviously that is you). I wonder what your sign is? Anyway, an aries man, really doesn't think that men and women can be just friends, if he thinks he can seduce you, pursue you, or you give him a challenge then he will stick around and keep trying. It is in his nature! An Aries man wants to Adam to the Eve, Romeo to the Juliet - this is why he made you feel like the only woman in the universe. It is his style. He has to be #1 in life! It makes him feel good about himself (which ultimately will be his downfall). Aries men have a tendency to put the woman of interest in their eyes on a pedestal - remember this woman is who they want to conquer. They will do this with every woman who catchs their eye... they love the chase.
I hope this helps! Keep away... resist his charms (because he has many), but always keep in mind this guy is trouble.. with a double whammy.
2007-09-06 01:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by MurphysGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've studied astrology for years. There's a lot that you can say when you find out a person's sun sign like, "Oh she's a cancer, she can be a little looney," or "He worries so much, he must be a Virgo."
But there's a lot more to a "horoscope" than where the SUN was the day you were born. There are 10 OTHER aspects that make up a person's horoscope as a whole. The Sun, the Moon (their moon sign) Where the Earth was (their ascendant or rising sign), and where all the other 8 planets were at the time a person was born. Usually a persons ascendant or Moon sign will play more of a part in a their personality than their Sun sign.
Aries however ARE known for getting bored in a relationship if things aren't going the way they want them to. They're impatient and lustful beings and will go out of their way to get what they want. So he may be displaying more signs of being an Aries than you'd think.
But a person's astrological sign isn't going to be the only thing that causes them to act the way they do. For all we know this person could have come from a family where his mom or dad had a new mistress or boy friend every week and this only seems normal to them.
2007-09-06 01:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by corduroymagician 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way are they Honest or Faithful
I knew my ex who was Aries had many affairs over 22 years and I am yet to meet a Honest or Faithful Aries
Sorry but it is true and you know the truth hurts so I know I am going to get some thumbs down with this reply LOL
He was with another Lady for over a Year before I give him the flick and to this day he does not know I knew about her
As I didn't care for him for a long time I just had pity for this other Lady
Aries and Sex
In many ways the excitement is in the chase not the conquest. It isn't that Aries lovers aren't faithful -- they are, as long as the excitement of new challenges in love are always there to stimulate them. Aries may appear to want to dominate, but does not want a submissive partner in sex. Routine is what brings boredom to lovemaking for Aries. Aries women may have difficulties in love because she may see her partner as a fellow contestant in the world.
Aries Dislikes
* being ignored
* physical restriction
* being placed less than first
* anyone who performs better than they
* old things, second-hand stuff
* having to wait for anything
Negative Factors
Because Aries are very jealous of other peoples abilities and achievements, Aries friendships often don't last very long. However, a person who will admire his or her Aries friend and remain interesting, though not ambitious, can enjoy an enduring friendship with Aries. Aries can become harsh and nasty if his or her fragile ego is under threat.
Love & Blessings
Milly
2007-09-06 05:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aries will be faithful as long as they don't get Bored, we love the "chase"?! I've been a Faithful Aries, but will leave a relationship out of boredom or routine?! It is hard to keep an aries interested after the "chase and conquer". For him to be married and not tell you about it just makes him- a piece of crap!!!!!!!!!!! But he probably used you to feed his own ego, and give him something to "chase" Aries will make you the center of our universe until we have you, then its up to you to keep us "entertained" wanting more.
2007-09-07 07:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by Day Dreamin' in Cali'! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aries are faithful men in the respect that they do not usually ask their wife for divorce...they will stick it out as long as she can! They do, however, have affairs as they are very physical and passionate men.
2007-09-06 01:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aries faithful?!-what a joke! I know lots of them and they have romances even they're married kick him out girl! he is cheater ! Aries Gemini Libra and Taurus are most unfaithful signs(I know lots of them and I know this)Aries are very often sex addict! He used you for his sex pleasures only I think kick out bastard!!!!
2007-09-06 02:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by AttoresLyjin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i'm an aries and i just got a lot of insight into me. i've heard we're supposed to be loyal but i've cheated...not proudly but i have. doesn't matter what sign he is, he's married. run away, run away!
2007-09-06 02:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by babaoriley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an Aries, and have been described as fiercely loyal, but I have cheated on my marriage
2007-09-06 00:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by DFS 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They usually are, they like to focus all their energy on one person romantically usually. Apparently the focus shifted from his wife to you. Any sign can be a cheater, just tell him to get out of your life. Sometimes you have to tell them over and over to get out of your life, too.
2007-09-06 00:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by Kate J 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes but go extremes in showing behavioural patterns
2007-09-06 00:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by swati_chhavi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋