How do I break up with him.Should I be afraid?What should I do about this?I tried to break up again just now!?
I met a man online in June of this year.We started out fine...but slowly..things have changed.Alot of it is my fault.I have told him four times since June that we are not good for one another.Then he starts saying things like " But we love each other!" "I love you!" "You love me, lets work this out!" Then I start to feel bad and sad...and so..I stay.I noticed that he has a BAAAD temper.He got angry a few weeks ago and punched the wall.
We got into an argument at a resturaunt and he said to me " You are acting like such a ****!" ) :
Last week I decided to just ignore his calls.I thought that he would just give up and leave me alone.I was hoping that maybe he would just meet a really BEAUTIFUL woman and forget about me. I did not answer his calls for three days.He ended up Googleing my street address and got directions.He was at my door ringing the doorbell. He was saying " Sweetie where have you been I have been so worried. I thoughtr something happened to you!" I feel sooo bad.
2007-09-05 16:24:32 · 7 answers · asked by DO YOU LOVE ME♥*´`*•.¸★｡ 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
What's wrong with this picture?
"I love you! You're acting like a ****! I love you! You're acting like a ****! But honey don't leave, I love you, you ****!!"
He's bad news; a stalker at best, and from your description, one with anger management issues, who is potentially physically abusive.
How is a lot of it your fault? Only as long as you keep going back.
2007-09-05 18:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by oimwoomwio 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are asking the wrong question.
The correct question is "How do I go about getting a Restraining Order?"
The signs are there. Start paying attention. Or do you just really want to get into the newspapers that badly?
2007-09-05 16:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by open4one 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wow. Did you run a background check on him? I strongly recommend it.
You need to let everybody you know know about him and have the information on him (such as his phone number). This way police at least will know where to look for your body in case if something happens.
2007-09-05 16:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by OC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, he punched a wall, called you a bad name, and searched for your address (I'd feel better had you given it to him on your on initiative). Start putting you and your well-being first, which means standing firm with him and telling him that you do not deserve to be with a man who makes you uncomfortable with his temper and disrespects you. Seriously, you could be dealing with a potentially dangerous person. Hold your ground and cut off communication with him.
2007-09-05 16:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Opal 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stop feeling so bad. You're letting him manipulate you because you're so emotionally weak. Tell him, firmly and sternly, that you do not want to be with him and he is to leave you alone or you will call the police.
2007-09-05 16:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah, break up with him. He wont give up, also. Its time to get a restraining order. And help from your friends.
2007-09-05 16:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by rss_beatty 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him you just found out you have aids
2007-09-05 16:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋