If you have been nice to everyone (or almost everyone) your entire life but people constantly mistake your kindness for weakness, what would you do? Would you punish them severely in such a manner that they would regret their own existence?
2007-09-05 15:58:57 · 6 answers · asked by George Bushman 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Being kind to others is a strength, not a weakness; press on with the knowledge "they" are mistaken in their unkind responses. Forgive those others; do not punish them for that (revenge) is the true weakness in human behavior.
Good luck, good health, peace and love!
2007-09-05 16:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mad Mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that sounds serious. "Would you punish them severely in such a manner that they would regret their own existence." So because somebody uses you, you would make their life so miserable or punsh them so they wished they were dead?
Everybody gets used at sometime or another. Some of us more then others. I personally stay above the "getting even". I may not associate with them any more, but that's about it. They can live thier life and I'll live mine.
2007-09-05 16:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Simba 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am that nice person and i am getting colder every day but i guess i cant change its how my moms raised me some times it all builds up and i explode but then no one wants to be mean to me anymore they just get out of my way when im coming i wish i could always be angry but i, just a pssy but i am slowly getting colder these big towns change you but im changing everyone i meet also i think i can see them look within and they look back at me like they know me
2007-09-05 16:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by self0dest0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See these?.....( ) ..Ok...get another ( ).... Put your "real" friends in the first parentheses. And the others in the second one.
By you asking this question I can tell you care about both....
You have to suck it up...you cannot change people who don't want to be changed; and you cannot give up those who supported you...and were your " real friends".
2007-09-05 16:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by riverrat15666 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the other cheek. You are not spitualy evolved enough to understand the idea behind that concept but that is what is needed to be done.
2007-09-05 16:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply remind myself that I am not weaker than them. As long as I know, it doesnt matter what they think.
2007-09-05 16:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋