Everything from girls to career is going nowhere. I want to get out of this NULL existence and into a better one.
2007-09-05 15:18:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
maybe your standard of what physical appearances a girl should have are above standard. Try looking for someone that is nice and fun to be with rather than oh she's hot. If your job sucks try going back to school. School is also a good place to meet people. Life is what you make of it. If you want to improve it, you need to step up to the plate and make the changes. Good luck
2007-09-05 15:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by littleme836 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a good look at your avatar & your name. You are very unhappy. That is too bad for you.
You need to take time to think about what you own of this problem. It is your life so you know best WHY you seem to be doing the wrong things. You have some bad karma working there. I think, for whatever reason, you are working against yourself.
Why did you use the word NULL & capitalize the letters?
You are the only one that can change your problems into something better. You don't like yourself very much.
2007-09-05 23:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not just a matter of perspective. It is a matter of living. The more you reflect about what you have done so far and learning from it, the more are the chances of getting a much desirable life. Life is beautiful. It is. It has given us the chance to rise above any predicament.
When you seem to have struck out of LUCK then try FAITH. Faith in yourself and the people around you. If that seems to be lacking then add some HOPE. But if hoping against hopelessness still does not bring bliss, then try LOVE. Loving someone who is not even capable of loving you back is good enough. Loving the person in spite of the rejection. Loving inspite of the person is bliss.
2007-09-05 22:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by refused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say f**k it to everything you hate but still cling to. Quit your job, sell all your crap and hitchhike around the country or further for awhile. It might not help, it might even lead to disaster, but it will get you out of your null existence guaranteed. I would recommend going south to avoid death during the upcoming winter months.
I also second Chaos Saturnalia's advice.
2007-09-05 22:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel sadness and sorrow for the self is to look at life from one perspective.
Did you want the girl? Did you want to date her? Did you want the job? Did you want the career? Ironically, many of the things that we want are temporarily a source of pleasure, but we often learn to regret them.
Acting for immediate gratification often leads to dissatisfaction in the end. I think that is the moral in your question. In your rush to end the NULL cycle, you are likely to be swayed again by immediate gratification.
2007-09-05 22:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by guru 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your in need of some kind of psychedelic experience. Time to get out of your head, dude. Read: A Lazy Man's Guide to Enlightenment by Thaddeus Golas. Join a Tibetan Meditation class. Go to India. Go on a camping trip and take magic mushrooms. Do anything to get out to the head trip you got yourself in.
2007-09-05 22:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it sucks so much, just do what you think is right, not what others tell you to do. I mean, if girls aren't going your way, and you're old enough that possible 40-60-year-old rapists aren't a threat, use a dating site or something like that. Use pity truth, like "My life just sucks because girls don't like me often". Chances are, some girl (pretty, ugly, who knows), will feel sorry for you and try to meet with you to talk, or start a relationship.
2007-09-05 22:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is what you make of it! As for love, well there is no answer for that, as for careers, well if you dont like your career, get a new one and you would probably have luck with women!
2007-09-05 22:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you suck at life? Because you let life suck at you.
Watch ask a ninja and be happy. Everyone's life sucks if you look in the right places.
2007-09-05 23:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by existenceisrelative 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever hear the saying ya gotta go through hell to get to heaven? it will get better what you are experiencing is a buliding of character ..relish it ... embrace it and learn humility for it is the truly humble that are the real heroes
2007-09-05 22:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by plagam_extremam_infligere 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋