I am a girl and I don't think I have every had an orgasim. How do you get one. I am old enough to ask these questions. I am actually 19 and married!! So how do you have one? And how do you know if you have had one? Please tell me everything I need to know about this.
2007-09-05 15:10:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You need to take time to get to know your own body and hubby too, as in foreplay you can discover many things, a vibrator is a good toy to begin with, does hubby play with your clit??
Vaginal orgasms are very hard to get, he needs to find your g-spot. Oral sex done proper also will work, play and learn together.
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2007-09-05 15:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by baja QT 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you are alone and have no fear of getting caught do it for your self. Buy an electric massager not a battery opperated vibrator and lay on you back lift legs up and put it on your clitoris. Try to fantasize about something that turns you on or watch an adult video while you are doing this .I promise it will work. Then you will know what it feels like.This will also help you have orgasims with your husband. The key is to focus on your fantasies .Sears carries a great massager.By the way I was 22 before my first one.
2007-09-05 15:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by katr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a 19 year old married woman, I think that it is very sad that you need to ask such a question. Introduce your husband to your clitoris and experiment until he is able to stimulate it in the manner that feels good to you, keep him at it and you will eventually orgasm. Do this before you have actual intercourse - it will make intercourse more enjoyable for you, you will be wetter and you might just manage another orgasm!
2007-09-05 18:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way for a woman to orgasm is by stimulation of your clitoris.To find your clitoris go to the top of your slit, where the 2 sides meet under your belly button, slide your finger between the lips and feel around at the back for a small lump. It should tingle when you touch it..lick your finger and rub the lump gently in small circles. You should start to get wet. Keep rubbing, next you will start to feel like you really need to pee. you DONT need to pee keep rubbing the feeling will pass. Next you may tense up or start to shake, its ok keep going. Next you will feel a weird feeling building up inside, its ok keep rubbing. Try to hold the feeling in as long as you can, then when you cant hold it any longer, let it go. To orgasm during sex ,you need to ensure that your partners body is higher than yours so that during intercourse his penis is in contact with your clitoris. It will take a bit of practise but its worth doing. Good luck
2007-09-06 10:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel embarrassed about getting a vibrator, just use your fingers (or shower head if its on a hose, or even electric tooth brush!!!)
have some time alone, read something a bit naughty, or fantasize about something that excites you.dont judge yourself on what you think about.
also, focus on touching other parts of your body, not just your clit.your breats, nipples, neck, thighs etc, whatever feels nice. you might like to use your fingers inside too. try squeezing them. when you feel breathless and nervy, keep going and try to hold onto the feelings. use saliva on your fingers if you dont have any lubrication, or cooking oil even. try different positions too.
have a look online about masturbation for women, you will prob find out heaps, and might also come across stuff that excites you
2007-09-05 16:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband to insert a finger and feel for a rigid spot about 2 to 3 inches in sort of feels like the shell of a peanut if this certain spot is given some attention it will be the "G" spot in good. Have fun.
2007-09-05 15:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by bigjg 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree. The best way to experience one is to take some time by yourself and see what feels good. In time you will figure it out, and then you'll kick yourself for not trying it out earlier! =)
2007-09-05 15:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by midnightrose 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you might go to the library and read the Joy of Sex, it gives very detailed explanations and you might learn something.
2007-09-05 15:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to get to know your own body.....what turns you on....where you like to be touched and how........a vibrator is ok....or your own fingers or someone elses.......whatever your comfy with.......there is no rules........its all up to you......i didn't have one until i was in my late twenties.......so relax your not alone!!
2007-09-05 15:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by ask me a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy...buy a vibrator and use it. It's a good start.
2007-09-05 15:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋