like i thought i saw this girl that hates me and the person that i thought was her was so pretty and were surrounded by friends. i got so jealous, mad, depressed, and sad. i felt like fainting and dying. i felt like killing myself. i have no friends and i'm not so pretty and she was. i had lots of friends and i was pretty until she took my friends and ruined my confidence. so i was like this isn't fair i felt like fainting right there. then i found out it wasn't her. yeah. haha. what can i do? why am i letting how she is effect how i am?
2007-09-05 14:51:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Anytime we start comparing ourselves to others, it is not a good thing. Concentrate on being comfortable with yourself. We tend to become what we picture ourselves as. Tell yourself you are pretty until you believe it. Pretty soon others will too.
2007-09-05 15:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by Max 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want approval. You seem like you don't make your own choices. You do as others. That could lead to trouble. Maybe you need to find yourself. Find out what you like and not what others like. Once you find out who you are inside and out no ones opinion will matter. I wish you the best!!
2007-09-05 22:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by ladydeneice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1 .. get some friends.. thats ALLLL u gotta do .. but be very social and NICE DO NOT MAKE FRIENDS BY BEING MEAN IT DOESN'T WORK !! believe me , make some friends that are good for you and don't act fake, and if u get hurt obviously they arent friends.. good luck =] ( and be appy it works rly well =], NOT PREPPY but happy and posotive, not cheerleader jus induvidual)
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2007-09-05 22:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u were supposed to do... keep looking
2007-09-05 21:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by skeptic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋