should i reply back???

Question

okay im 18 and went out with this guy like 3 yrs ago but we never remained friends cause he was in trouble alot and stupid psycho. well i saw him a few times in between and now im in college. he just emailed me and says he feels bad we never stayed friends, and stuff. he also wants to go inot the same thing im studying in college supposedly. i dont know if i should ignore him or be nice and write back. i just dont want him to start calling me and stuff. my parents would get mad if they found out i was talking to him again too. what should i do cause i dont really like him. but dont wanna be mean

Answer 1

The nice thing to do is to ignore him if you don't want him around.

Answer 2

Often you women need to be blunt to set your own limitations and be firm.

To signal you are barely tolerating him is an idea and if worse be open,kind and just clear on your borders.

To be mean isnt always even working.
But if you are insecure if and to what extent you have the right to decide your wants and dont´s just DONT! You are in charge of your own life.(yeah,kinda)

I think women often have to be VERY cold,clear and 'selfish' cause theres suckers and they wont learn if they sit in some girls niceety-nice nice.
ARE you interested in SOME way,be true to yourself but as it seem this bloke are nothing but nosebleed to you so tell him that.

Dont be polite for no good reason.

The risk are he sticks on you and you will have to hassle n´dazzel over unknown time to humor him.

Why?

As with the fear of the dark as an ex,

-as long you let the fear be in charge you never walk the basement cellar,but if you just storm into the dark your real world be bigger.

Know yourself and know you are enough!
Know you have nothing to be ashamed of.
Know you own anyone nothing (YEEES REALLY).

Dont shortchange yourself.

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Answer 3

If you are afraid of appearing mean, then I suggest you ignore his emails. Do not respond to phone calls either. He'll get the hint soon. Hang tough. Don't give in.

Answer 4

he sounds obsessive.

if u give him any attention he'll think you're teasing him. so in this case, just leave him alone.

Answer 5

hi there

Follow your gut instinct

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