Ok,well,this is a question about what I should do about the way my "best" guy friend treats me.
He lives in New York,I live in Kentucky,but we were really close at one time.
Things have changed though.He hurts my feelings constantly,and I always want to cry because of something he does or says.
Heres a list of things he's said or done to me.
-I jokingly said that I was being replaced by my nephew who is also friends with my guy friend,and my guy friend said yea,you are,& then he said,no actually your being replaced by this new girl Im talking to.
-He constantly tells me Im dumb & is always throwing his ex in my face,even though he knows I like him.
-The only time he wants to talk on the phone is if were gonna have "fun".Any other time he always says no.
-He never has time for me.& we'll be talking,and without telling me bye or anything,he signs out.
-He NEVER IMs me.
-I asked him once if he could go a yr without talking to me,he said,no,then changed his answer to maybe
2007-09-05 11:55:35 · 10 answers · asked by Baby<3Britt 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes,I know I asked this in the Polls and Survey section,but yall seem more like family than the people in the other sections.
And I know Ive asked this before,but I didnt get enough answers...sorry.
2007-09-05 11:56:48 · update #1
dude's a loser, ditch him
when he finally calls you, tell him your busy, hang up, and move on with your life.
this is all too brief an existence to be bogged down with some loser's baby games.
good luck with everything,
T
2007-09-05 12:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well from a guys point of view it sounds like he could be joking. BUT, it could also be taken a little more seriously as you are taking it. And some of the things he is doing I would also take the way you are taking them. SO, If I were you, I would sit down and think about what I want to say to him. And then I would send it to him making sure that at the very least I ask him if he were joking or if he were for real. And I might be leaning towards just ending any contact with him. Sorry, I know this is not what you want to hear, BUT this is just my opinion. Either way I hope it works out for you.
2007-09-05 12:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be forward with him, you can stand by and watch as he hurts you or tell him what it does to you, and if the answer is a good one things will work itself out, but if its bad you should learn to accept him or move on
2007-09-05 12:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Smiley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DITCH HIM!! he sounds like a major jerk theres other guys go find one
2007-09-05 12:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by heres to all the pretty words 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 words- murder, suicide.
Just kidding, dump him get a guy closer to home that doesn't crap on you.
2007-09-05 12:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes usin u,he is bein veri mean *looks worried* ♥
2007-09-05 12:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Will do, boss!
2007-09-05 12:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by Redeemer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok............to long to read.....but by the way it looks it seems good....... :)
2007-09-05 12:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so....why exactly are u friends with him??
2007-09-05 12:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thanks for the advice, got 1 already
2007-09-05 11:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋