An existing person. I'm "in love" with someone I can never ever be with, but I don't really think i'm in love, that this is just something my own dreams provoked. There is a huge attraction, but I don't think it's love, unless i'm telling myself this to try and snap out of it.
How? Have you ever had to do this?
2007-09-05 11:49:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Actually reach for a true objective, in other words, I don't know. I can't imagine success without applying my imagination to accomplish it, I just can't do it and I won't do it. Do you know what gambling addiction is? That would be it. The essential nature of love has no picture thought, no factuality, not the adult kind; its possibility exists independently of consciousness. If your love has nothing to do with a kind of idea, notion, belief or concept that is shared with the other as the others self identity, how could it be. It is self: the Will is positive, the Judgment is negative. How could be active. It must have a possibility. Therefor you believe it is possible, but so does the gambling addict. What are you wagering against the jackpot.
2007-09-05 15:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Psyengine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about all his bad qualities, and if you can't find any, I know what to do. It's quite harsh actually, but I had to do it. I had finally decided that I was going to let a boy know that I was absolutely in love with him, because I thought I was, because sure he was a cute, loving, nice, great guy. So I told him one day, I really really like you, mind you I never really talked to him, so this was like maybe my 4th approach to him. He told me that in no way what so ever did he like me, he was really rude about it and then kinda walked away. So, yeah this made me hate him, because he seemed so nice, but most people just say i'm sorry, but no, i could've taken that but instead I got a huge reaction to it that was like 'nuh uh, no way, never with you' and that broke my heart and I realised that all was ever in my heart was an infatuation with a guy that I could never be with, but it may be different with you, don't think that any guy is too good for you, because he very well might think that you're too good for him. Just buck it up, ask, and then you'll really know if you have a chance and if he's a total dick or not and not worth it. So I hope I could help, this way is a little 'out there' but it works.
2007-09-05 11:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that situation before and it's hard to snap back to reality but you just have to make yourself do it as hard as it is though. Your not in love with this person since he doesn't exist but only in your mind you just think you do. Don't let your heart confuse you and blind you because this person isn't real so you can't be in love with them. You have to snap out of your imagination and come to reality even though you don't want to but remeber there's a time for dreaming and day dreaming and then there's a time to be in the real world and not day dreaming. good luck!
2007-09-05 11:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Jesy Lynne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your reaching for something, that you cant find.... maybe you need to take a good luck at yourself and find out whats really bugging you...... and maybe start liking yourself so that's its easier to love someone else..
hope this helps :))) and sounds like your telling yourself this to try to snap out of what ever is going on in your own heart :))))))))
2007-09-06 07:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone that I love deeply but we cant ever be together, not at this point in time anyway. We are on the other side of the world from each other. : (
2007-09-05 15:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Lillian Cassidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fall into that very often, sadly my only snap back to reality is a broken heart and a harsh word =(
best luck
2007-09-05 11:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by GOLDENFAIRY 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
*thenks* i used to feell liek that when i had crushes on celebritys when i wus younger joey. u cent help how u feel, i dunt thenk its a bad thing unless its making u unhappy ♥
2007-09-05 11:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds more like an intense crush to me.
Just find a boyfriend to get your mind off of him..
2007-09-05 11:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by mikey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happened to me, yes.
Eventually I got over it. I wrote down my feelings, and I soon got over it. You will get over it. Pray hard. (=
2007-09-05 11:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by Hot - Maddie - Rod 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're on drugs, I strongly suggest you stop taking them. You'll only hurt yourself and your friends.
2007-09-05 12:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sacrificial 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋