So, theres this girl who I've known for a year now. We became really good friends last year at school and I felt like she was really one of my close friends.
This year, we both started a new school together, and I thought we were still cool until one day I was walking behind her and heard her talking sh*t about me. She didnt know I heard her though.
What is up with that? And honestly what should I do now?
Take the b*tch out or just let it go?
2007-09-05 11:40:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
K thank you, Im not trying to be childish, Im just saying is it worth confronting her about it and possibly having that turn into a fight (knowing her it probably would)
I dont mean go up to her and start yelling in a whiny baby voice.
Good hell.
2007-09-05 11:55:48 · update #1
Confront her but I don't recommend fighting her over it. But likely it was just her blowing off steam about something that was upsetting her over you. People do vent about people they care about. If she gets ignorant with you when you confront her then end the friendship. You don't need friends like that. But give her a chance to appologize first. She'll probably feel real bad for saying those things.
2007-09-05 11:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kellie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let it go. True friends are rare, indeed. If we 'took out' every person who offended us, we'd be fighting all the time. What a hassle.
She isn't worth the anger....let it go, get new friends and move on. "Taking her out" just sounds immature....like something a small child would want to do. I would hope you are better than that.....
2007-09-05 18:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would drop the b*tch, you do not need people like that in your life. If she was talking about you now, then likely she has been doing it all along. I hate people like that.
2007-09-05 18:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Soda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG my lil sis is having some problems . Cause we will bank people up in here sike but don't worry about that gurl and just tell me when you having some problems!!!
2007-09-05 19:18:56 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Shae Shae♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people talk stuff all the time.
confront her sometime calmly and ask her "whats up?" cause u dont want to be friends with a 2-faced girl.
2007-09-05 18:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by magnet4trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go....seriously she is not worth the effort. It will be behind you in a few weeks and she can find new friends...You will laugh about it later.
2007-09-05 18:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by jeepiegurl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be childish. You need to revamp your definition of a friend and have some stricter standards when it comes to distinguishing someone as a friend.
2007-09-05 18:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by That NC Girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find better friends.
2007-09-05 18:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and bring it up. Just to see what she has to say and then take it from there
2007-09-05 18:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by t g 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm w/ Kellie on this one.
2007-09-05 18:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by yllwdaisies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋