2007-09-05 10:30:32 · 17 answers · asked by Bunny Boiler 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
try to focus on something else. for example, i like to play with my dogs when i'm feeling blue. they usually help cheer me up. i know, it can be hard to get over a break up. you have to keep reminding yourself that it wasn't meant to be and you will find the right one. you are a gorgeous and smart young lady. if your ex doesn't see that then you don't want to be with him. you will find the right one. try not to focus on the past. it's already done. you can't rewrite it. all you can do is move on with your life. it will all work out in the end. take care doll!
2007-09-05 11:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My sis lost her husband of 35 years to cancer. A friend of her late husband stopped by to see if she needed help winterizing the house a few months after his passing. After spending an afternoon wrapping pipes and mulching young trees and shrubs, he had a cup of hot chocolate with her and they reminisced about how much fun her husband had always been, and how sad it was that he was gone. Then he stopped by after a snow storm to plow the drive. Then he dropped by to make sure she had enough fire wood built up. In the spring he stopped in to see if she needed a hand with the garden. They were just friends, and for two years, they would sit and have tea, coffee, or coco, depending on the season, and talk about how much she missed her husband, and how life was difficult without him. They exchanged greetings at church, and eventually she invited him to join the family for a holiday meal. Last summer, the two got married, and they are both happier than they had been in some time. We were glad to see her find love again. She was mid fifties. I have talked to my husband of more than 30 years. If something happens to me, I'd expect him to grieve a decent period, but I don't think he is meant to be alone. I'd want him to find love, to feel "in love" again. I love him with all my heart, but I'd also expect to fall in love again some day if I were to lose him. I don't think humans are meant to be alone. I do not believe there is a "too old." I've seen couples at the nursing home where my mother lives holding hands. Love isn't something you find, like a little box. It is a way of behaving, and a way of viewing the world. Finding new love does not diminish the value of any of the loves you've had before. Love is a "magic pocket." The more you give away, the more you discover you have left to give. Loving my husband is as natural as breathing. I won't stop loving him until I stop breathing. But that doesn't mean I can't also start to love someone else if I find myself alone.
2016-04-03 05:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten years ago, I went through a messy divorce.
I felt like that for a while. It just started to get to me and I forced myself to stat answering computer personals.
I found my current wife through an AOL personal.
I wasn't really looking for a relationship but I found one.
After ten years of loving her ... some days I don't feel like I can love again. Some days its still depressing to get up.
My wife and I still hurt and still hurt each other. Looking at other relationships around me I can see that that is just life.
When nothing else works, my wife and I sit down, stare at each other over a cup of coffee and eat chocolate ... lots of chocolate. Things usually work out with Dove and Maxwell House.
Chin up. Life isn't always bad. (-:
2007-09-06 02:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by Erik A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i felt like that for a while and was afraid to open up to anyone again and then that special person came along and now my heart is theirs...all it takes is time and that a certain person again
2007-09-05 10:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by NoLongerHere 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
look inside myself and search for something that i have but i havent discovered, love myself more, in that way, i would have an ample amput of love to give anyone.
2007-09-06 15:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live one day at a time knowing that tomorrow could be the day you meet the one who will change your life forever - everything could be just one day away....
2007-09-05 10:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by Pisces 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just take the time you need to heal. at the moment, you may not be able to love again.
2007-09-05 10:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by Aeon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it just takes time to get over the bad love,till you find a good love!
2007-09-05 11:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do something just for me for awhile to distract myself. Focus on taking care of me and my boys.
2007-09-05 10:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by Lady M 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Eat ice cream and spend time with your friends
2007-09-05 10:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by nobodyd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋