Should I get this new job?My 2 aunts approved it except my present employer(my 3rd aunt).Any sound advice?

Question

I am working as a cashier attendant in my eldest aunt's internet cafe after College w/ a degree in Business Administration.My aunt accepted me to fill the vacancy.Currently,i enjoy working as a cashier in the cafe even if we are paid less than minimum.I am happy here coz I have a wonderful co-worker,made many friends & less pressure bec. the owners are my relatives.I feel at home here.Then a bank teller job was offered to me & will be taking my exam tomorrow.But i am unsure to take this job coz I will miss many things & people i learned to love.If I quit here,my aunt(owner)will get upset at me since they trusted me so much.I'm afraid I might be disowned & totally be on my own.My 3 aunts(2 are abroad in US)paid to finish my college, apartment rent,water & electricity since my grandma is living with my unemployed dad & my mom left us.I feel I can't raise my dad on my own even if i have a bank teller job.If I would be able to pay for the bills,still might not be enough left for savings.

Answer 1

Your aunt isn't being very compassinate about your fanically situation. Not right, not nice, and not fair. Why she would basically treat you like family AND like a unknown employee I have no clue. You and her enjoy an interesting professional relatonship that you BOTH can take advantage of. She should be more compassinate towards your needs to support yourself, but if she is helping to pay the bills you sort of stuck appleasing her, so your best to talk to her heart felt about it and take her opionin (not much of a choice here really). Also considering your situation, I'd hang with the cafe' job, yea it doesn't pay much, but it gives you access to resources that can help with that, such as the "internet!", people from colleage, ability to socialize in a social environment which is great for social engineering, and the possiblity of an even better job later! So really take advantage of your set up (why your aunts take care of you, but your expected to raise your dad, you didn't explain) and just chill till something, much, much better comes along, espacially something that DOES pay enough, and one that you can be SURE you'll love for awhile. Don't want to be a teller then find out a co-worker/boss is a "handzy" type of guy, then quite that job, and then what? So always go with the plan that gives you a back up plan, the choice of caution in other words....