What's so wrong about not being in a sexual relationship?
I think its sad how most men cant be in a relationship without being sexually involved. i"m sorry but i'm just not that type of girl to give myself away like that. I dont understand. I feel like i"m going to be single for ever if that's the case. I'm 20 years old and i am losing hope in men. Ridiculous. I'm just tired of wasting my time on idiots.
2007-09-05 10:13:49 · 13 answers · asked by . 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Good for you. You will find the right person at the right time.
2007-09-08 20:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing whatever wrong with being "who you are" whatever the "issues".
And, all young men are not testosterone crazed troglodytes, although, at such age, discipline is somewhat of a challenge, eh?
Be open minded, patient, and brave. I'm sure you'll fine appropriate friends, especially if you spend a bit of time "meditating" on exactly what you're looking for.
BTW, in case you haven't noticed, 20 is exceedingly young. You have plenty of time left for fulfilling your "desires".
Best of luck :))
2007-09-05 11:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by drakke1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason as you find yourself feeling hopeless -- the fear of being alone. This fear propels people into all sorts of foolish action.
If people are dropping their pants at the drop of a hat, you are probably making a good choice. However, being celibate hasn't prevented many from making foolish choices once they decide that they are in love.
If you don't have an education, you are likely condemning your offspring to a life of hardship and poverty.
2007-09-05 11:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with abstaining. As a matter of fact its good. Marriages between two virgins have a 98% success rate. Only 2% end in divorce. Find another demographic that can boast that.
2007-09-05 10:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Zuker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of your past experiences, at age 20 you really aren't anywhere near old enough to have formed such a "blanket" opinion of men. Give yourself some time; there ARE good guys out there.
2007-09-05 10:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jolly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
inspite of what you pay attention your innovations is made up So make advantageous that in case you if the the two one among you're mature adequate to proceed, take precautions shop your relationship secret, telling each physique will in basic terms create issues once you do have intercourse, and you will, use condoms
2016-10-04 01:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Hun, Stick to you guns, there are alot of good men that will respect your wishes, And you will find one in time. That man will respect you too. The men that have to have sex in a relationship before marriage are really not men at all and not worth your time. and have not got what it takes to be a very
good husband in long run . yes one will come ,,stick to your guns........Blue
2007-09-07 03:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. Cept i find that women who are interested in me are only interested in a sexual relationship... in which case i dont' waste my time. Honestly.
2007-09-05 12:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose hope so soon...Being abstinent can be refreshing and help make priorities clearer, but it
can also cause some physical side effects and mental derangement....just kidding about the derangement...
good luck
2007-09-06 11:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm dont generalize people cuz theres diff types. and not all guys are like that. and maybe you should take a look at the choices of guys you get with. you might just be looking in the wrong spot.
2007-09-05 10:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by Julian G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋